Yes. Mine is that I put others first and always want to make people happy and to soothe them, make them feel better. It's not always a good idea. By that I mean it can cause me to collude rather than help them.. Sometimes challenge is best..
You know Addb the only way people can build muscle is to work out on their own. No one can do it for then. They have to do the work. Now being available to give an OCCASIONAL helping hand is a very nice thing. We all need a helping hand from time to time. But we also have to be able to function and thrive and survive on our own coattails and not keep riding those of others. Thank you for your reply! :)