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Don Barzini

What are qualities that most draw your interest in someone else?

Posted - May 16, 2019
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  • Intelligence, wit, a good sense of humor, open-mindedness, strong but sensitive, the ability to read my mind, knows how to brew a good cup of coffee, makes my eggs the way I like them, speaks just the right amount, puts the toilet seat down after using it, and likes cats.

    I'm not very picky.
      May 16, 2019 6:36 PM MDT
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  • 5391
    So we’re talking about a mate figure? 
      May 16, 2019 7:00 PM MDT
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  • Possibly.
      May 16, 2019 7:18 PM MDT
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  • 5391
    Any friend willing and able to meet these items would be a good friend, regardless. No? 
      May 16, 2019 7:21 PM MDT
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  • Possibly.
      May 16, 2019 7:25 PM MDT
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  • When they lie over and over again and I get to bust them and they have no response.  Yes, I have an example from your lunatic-in-chief. :P  I DARE you to prompt me! This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at May 16, 2019 6:49 PM MDT
      May 16, 2019 6:48 PM MDT
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  • "DARE", I said. 
      May 16, 2019 6:50 PM MDT
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  • 5391
    I know you must be quivering to get it out-
    Whose lunatic-in-chief? 
      May 16, 2019 6:59 PM MDT
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  • That would be Miss dead birds. xD
      May 16, 2019 7:51 PM MDT
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  • 5391
    Not my chief of anything.
    Just another member here, no different than you, really. Same MO. 
      May 17, 2019 4:29 AM MDT
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  • Dang, you figured out I'm everyone on the internet. :P
      May 17, 2019 7:33 AM MDT
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  • 19937
    Intelligence, kindness, honesty, good work ethic, friendly, good sense of humor, views me as an equal.
      May 16, 2019 7:02 PM MDT
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  • 5391
    Can they also have a passion for their boat? 
      May 16, 2019 7:09 PM MDT
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  • 19937
    Absolutely.  I don't get seasick. :)
      May 16, 2019 7:17 PM MDT
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  • 3523
    Oh yeah, I forgot.  If they have a seaworthy fishing boat and a cabin in the Rocky Mountains both of which I get to use, they're a cinch to become a life-long friend.  Maybe they could fund development of my inventions too.
      May 18, 2019 10:31 AM MDT
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  • 976
    You won't agree with this but, allow me to indulge you, someone who loves me as Jesus loves me. Unconditionally. And, I have that kind of love. 
      May 16, 2019 7:59 PM MDT
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  • 5391
    First of all, Congratulations. Love is life. 

    This isn’t at all about what I agree with, this is about sharing perceptions. Much can be learned from others outside of the bounds of bias. Would that more people recognized the value of such an idea. 
      May 16, 2019 9:18 PM MDT
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  • In person, I need a smile, whether shy or boisterous.  On the internet, a glutton for punishment. :P
      May 16, 2019 8:04 PM MDT
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  • Kindness.  Genuine kindness.  Simple as that.  I figure if that person has a kind heart then everything else like honesty, intimacy, and faithfulness will sort of take care of itself.
      May 16, 2019 10:06 PM MDT
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  • 5808
    Honesty, a heart full of love, selflessness, 
    a lack of me me me Egoic attitude, 
    a caring for people beyond self importance.
      May 16, 2019 10:48 PM MDT
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  • 5391
    Thanks, Baba. This seems rarer anymore. Maybe it’s just the public face people have to wear in these times, when incivility is the new normal. 
      May 17, 2019 4:35 AM MDT
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  • 17596
    In general I'm drawn to people who are genuine, can laugh at themselves as well as at others, makes me laugh, intelligent, and basically what I call a doer (as opposed to being a watcher).  
      May 17, 2019 1:01 AM MDT
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  • 5391
    Me as well. Can’t sit still, life is too short, too much to do. 
      May 17, 2019 4:36 AM MDT
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  • 6098
    Responsibility. 
      May 17, 2019 4:40 AM MDT
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