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Benedict Arnold

Do you like to hold hands with your significant other or are you sane?

Posted - July 25, 2019
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  • 1817
    i mean yeah pretty much 

      July 25, 2019 7:43 PM MDT
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  • I accept this answer. 
      July 25, 2019 7:45 PM MDT
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  • 44365
    Sacrilege. Mimicking a Beatles song. Oh...my wife and I rarely touch. We're not into it.
      July 25, 2019 7:50 PM MDT
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  • Meh, that sucks about you and wife. As much as I like older songs, I’ve never liked the Beatles much. They get on my nerve. 

      July 26, 2019 5:37 AM MDT
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  • 44365
    I have outgrown the need for touching. Sometimes I find it creepy.
      July 26, 2019 5:33 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    Maybe you should try holograms of each other.  
      July 26, 2019 1:19 PM MDT
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  • 4625
     
     
    I LOVE holding hands with my sig. other - and he's the same.
    Walking along the beach, down the road, through a shopping centre, in a cinema, watching telly.
    There's something about the contact that releases oxytocin,
    says so quietly,
    I love you,
    I feel good when I'm in your company.






    This post was edited by inky at July 26, 2019 5:30 PM MDT
      July 25, 2019 7:56 PM MDT
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  • I don’t like it. It feels like a trap.
      July 26, 2019 5:38 AM MDT
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  • C
      July 25, 2019 8:28 PM MDT
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  • Same, C. 
      July 26, 2019 5:38 AM MDT
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  • I like the idea of this
    But for like maybe 15 seconds.  Then my elbow starts hurt and it's like "  b!tch get off me ,  I gotta reach for my drink.  Damn, gotta be all.clingy and chit." This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at July 26, 2019 5:30 PM MDT
      July 26, 2019 6:49 AM MDT
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  • Anyone who knows anything about me, or has spent any time in adultMug listening to me rattle on about the things I like to do and not do, knows that there isn't much that hasn't made my "to do" list when it comes to amorous activities.  I have a plethora of playful proclivities, but I am also drawn to the fragrant rose petals of romanticism.  Each one has a time and place.  Each one serves a purpose.  Each one meets some physical need or hopefully some need of the heart.  Of all the intimate experiences I could have with someone I love, the someone that I could lose myself unceasingly in, my favorite is holding his hand.  Perhaps it appeals to my tender side, an innocent side of me that I don't want to lose.  Most assuredly it is a feeling of holding on to someone so dear and not wanting to ever let go.  It is a chance to have within my grasp, something visceral, something powerful, something special, and to feel it requires nothing more than the simple interlocking of fingers and the clasping together of two open hands from two loving people who are two halves of a greater and far more perfect whole.  Love is grand.  Hold my hand!

       This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at July 26, 2019 5:31 PM MDT
      July 25, 2019 11:52 PM MDT
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  • 4625

    You sound like the ideal lover. :)

      July 26, 2019 1:06 PM MDT
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  • 16359
    If I'm holding her hand, it's not reaching for my wallet.
      July 26, 2019 3:17 AM MDT
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  • Lol, good point. 
      July 26, 2019 5:38 AM MDT
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  • 5391
    Both. 
      July 26, 2019 3:45 AM MDT
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  • How‘s that possible?
      July 26, 2019 5:39 AM MDT
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  • 5391
    If you were a man blessed with my beautiful wife, you’d understand. 
      July 26, 2019 6:29 AM MDT
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  • 46117
    I want you to show this to her.  So cool.  
      July 26, 2019 1:21 PM MDT
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  • 5391
    I make no bones about it, my wife is a babe. 
      July 26, 2019 4:29 PM MDT
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  • 7280
    Nice...I can relate.
      July 26, 2019 4:31 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    There are certain people I am comfortable holding hands with.  None of them were my boyfriends.  Usually a child or a REASON to hold hands.  

    I have always been physically affectionate with my boyfriends, but we had very little reason to hold hands.  I sat on them a lot.  I hugged them. I sure as heck kissed them.  But hand-holding was not usually in the mix.
      July 26, 2019 1:17 PM MDT
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