My sister is very outgoing and has always been gregarious. She attracts people and has always had many friends. I am the opposite. A loner. Very shy. Still am sort of around the edges. I'm seven years older and we're now best friends. She is always involved in doing and engaging and joining in and I'm a homebody who prefers being right here where I am as often as I can. So that hasn't changed. But we have the same parents. So why is she the way she is and why am I the way I am? The luck of the draw? Random chance?