You are more right than you might think. There was a time as a juvenile when the bitterness was all-consuming. It drove me to not repeat the cycle. Then, with the help of a great man, I gained a university scholarship, and rose above their station. Never looked back after that.
I doubt there exists an effective method of quantifying the human toll of failed or inept parenting, but my hunch is what we‘d find would be alarmingly sad.
This post was edited by Don Barzini at January 29, 2020 9:46 PM MST