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  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic replied to a discussion topic in the group Over the Knee Club:
    No she just used her hand. But she spanked slow and hard, all the while lecturing me about irresponsibility. I cried and pleaded but she kept on spanking till she felt I'd learned my lesson.
    • July 15, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic replied to a discussion topic in the group Over the Knee Club:
    I think your Mom did the right thing. But safety is a much bigger thing than forgetting your hat at school. What do you think of my Mom's approach?
    • July 15, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic replied to a discussion topic in the group Over the Knee Club:
    How old were you when this happened?
    • July 15, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic replied to a discussion topic in the group Over the Knee Club:
    I was what you would call a good girl. If my parents only spanked me for disobedience, I wouldn’t have done too badly. But, they saw spanking as a way to modify all kinds of behavior including performance of chores and acting responsibly.  I was quite the...  moreI was what you would call a good girl. If my parents only spanked me for disobedience, I wouldn’t have done too badly. But, they saw spanking as a way to modify all kinds of behavior including performance of chores and acting responsibly.  I was quite the daydreamer and this sometimes resulted in chores being done late or poorly and forgetting things at school and at home. This frustrated my mother and her response was to put me across her knee, lift my skirt and spank me over my panties. It would be accompanied by an angry lecture about my daydreaming and my need to show more responsibility.
    Please share with us your experiences with punishments for "irresponsibility" and your views on the most effective way to handle it.  less
    • July 15, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic posted a discussion topic in the group Over the Knee Club:
    Spanked for daydreaming
    I was what you would call a good girl. If my parents only spanked me for disobedience, I wouldn’t have done too badly. But, they saw spanking as a way to modify all kinds of behavior including perf...
    • July 15, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic replied to a discussion topic in the group Over the Knee Club:
    Did they punish your Mom in the same manner? Had they been strict with her when she was younger? Were she and your father married?
    • August 2, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic replied to a discussion topic in the group Over the Knee Club:
    I meant how did you feel seeing another child getting spanked in public. Did it matter if you knew the girl? Did it matter if it was happening to a girl or a boy?
    • July 18, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic replied to a discussion topic in the group Over the Knee Club:
    I feel that unless there's some compelling reason, spankings should be administered in private. Did your Mom spank you with the hairbrush in public. What were you wearing when she bared you or made you bare yourself? 
    • July 15, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic replied to a discussion topic in the group Over the Knee Club:
    Were either you or any of your friends disciplined in the public manner you described above? What did you do and feel when you saw a child getting spanked in public?
    • July 15, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic joined the group Over the Knee Club:
    • October 3, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic joined the group Random Statements:
    • October 3, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic replied to a discussion topic in the group Childhood Discipline Memories:
    Sorry Andy. Bravado would have been a very bad tactic with my family. I had to always look like I was being respectful or face the consequences of acting disrespectfully. And I rarely received a spanking that didn't leave me a sobbing mess so no one would...  moreSorry Andy. Bravado would have been a very bad tactic with my family. I had to always look like I was being respectful or face the consequences of acting disrespectfully. And I rarely received a spanking that didn't leave me a sobbing mess so no one would have believed my bravado.    
    • August 9, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic replied to a discussion topic in the group Childhood Discipline Memories:
    I totally agree. That's why parents tend to punish more severely for lying than they do for the initial offense. More often than not if I was caught telling a lie, it meant a session with Daddy and his strap. And, of course, I'd also be spanked for the of...  moreI totally agree. That's why parents tend to punish more severely for lying than they do for the initial offense. More often than not if I was caught telling a lie, it meant a session with Daddy and his strap. And, of course, I'd also be spanked for the offense that I'd lied about.  
    • August 9, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic replied to a discussion topic in the group Childhood Discipline Memories:
    I knew a boy who claimed that. Like you I always cried sincere tears and never lied about how much it hurt. Besides wanting some sympathy, I worried that maybe it would get back to my parents that I said it and I'd get spanked again for lying. I think gir...  moreI knew a boy who claimed that. Like you I always cried sincere tears and never lied about how much it hurt. Besides wanting some sympathy, I worried that maybe it would get back to my parents that I said it and I'd get spanked again for lying. I think girls are much less likely to show such bravado. Especially girly-girls like me.  
    • August 9, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic replied to a discussion topic in the group Childhood Discipline Memories:
    Perhaps. But the child always has to consider what will happen if they get caught lying. I always did and as a result, I probably fessed up to things that I could have gotten away with. Telling the truth generally meant only getting it from Mom's hand. Ly...  morePerhaps. But the child always has to consider what will happen if they get caught lying. I always did and as a result, I probably fessed up to things that I could have gotten away with. Telling the truth generally meant only getting it from Mom's hand. Lying often meant Daddy's strap.    
    • August 5, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic replied to a discussion topic in the group Childhood Discipline Memories:
    Did you ever take a spanking for a sibling to protect them? Did one of your siblings ever do it for you? I always felt that if I had a younger sister I would do that for her. 
    • August 4, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic replied to a discussion topic in the group Childhood Discipline Memories:
    Were you required to confess wrongdoings? If you didn't did that constitute lying by omission.
    • July 28, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic replied to a discussion topic in the group Childhood Discipline Memories:
    My parents told me that they expected me to confess any and all offenses. Such confession could still result in a spanking but it would be far worse if they found out on their own. So, I would always try to figure out my odds of getting caught. I generall...  moreMy parents told me that they expected me to confess any and all offenses. Such confession could still result in a spanking but it would be far worse if they found out on their own. So, I would always try to figure out my odds of getting caught. I generally erred on the side of caution and probably could have avoided more spankings by staying silent. But there was always the threat of Daddy's strap.
       
    • July 28, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic replied to a discussion topic in the group Childhood Discipline Memories:
    Consider yourself fortunate that your stepmother gave you the opportunity to ask your friend to leave. And did it occur to you that if your stepmother postponed your spanking that after your friend left you'd get spanked even harder for pulling such a stu...  moreConsider yourself fortunate that your stepmother gave you the opportunity to ask your friend to leave. And did it occur to you that if your stepmother postponed your spanking that after your friend left you'd get spanked even harder for pulling such a stunt. Did your stepmom give you that warning in front of Mary or did she pull you aside? Did that incident affect your relationship with Mary? Did you have friends who also got spanked at 13 years of age? I did and that made getting spanked at that age a lot more bearable. I only wished I had  a sister to commiserate with.  less
    • July 31, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic replied to a discussion topic in the group Childhood Discipline Memories:
    Were your friends being cruel or did they really hope you'd recovered enough to come join them?
    • July 28, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic replied to a discussion topic in the group Childhood Discipline Memories:
    A few times I left the apartment to avoid a spanking. Each time I'd return and then I'd be spanked twice. I now see that my parents had no choice.
    • July 28, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic joined the group Childhood Discipline Memories:
    • October 3, 2016
  • Donny
    Donny:
    Louise, Thanks for sharing your childhood spanking history.  My parents were raised here in the U.S. but that did not deter them from using the hairbrush and the strap.  Never got hand spankings - just a swat or two as a warning.  But when it was time for...  moreLouise, Thanks for sharing your childhood spanking history.  My parents were raised here in the U.S. but that did not deter them from using the hairbrush and the strap.  Never got hand spankings - just a swat or two as a warning.  But when it was time for a spanking it was either the hairbrush from my mom or the strap from my dad.  
    • May 10, 2016
  • Morten Juul
    Morten Juul:
    one boy who is 4 year old and 5 year old daughter
    • April 29, 2016
  • Louise Vancisic
    Louise Vancisic → Morten Juul:
    How old are your children? Are they boys, girls or both?
    • April 28, 2016
  • Donny
    Donny:
    Hi Louise, thanks for that thoughtful profile information.  I'm curious, did you spank your children in a similar manner as you were spanked?
    • April 28, 2016
  • RPF1918
    RPF1918:
    So you have never gotten over the mixed feelings of arousal and shame while receiving corporal punishment, and in the absence of any understanding, any empathy, any validation of your own feelings, they festered and became a fetish?
    • April 28, 2016
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    Morten Juul
    How old are your children? Are they boys, girls or both?
    April 28, 2016

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