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When people say "Trust me", do you trust them more, or do you trust them less ?

Societies cannot function without trust, so what is the best way of engendering trust ?

1) Saying "Trust me" a lot.

2) Being truthful and honest in your words and actions.

Posted - June 23, 2016

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  • 2658

    I take the statement with 'a grain of salt' or 'a pinch of salt': meaning  to accept it but to maintain a degree of skepticism about its truth.

    I believe in the saying: 'trust but verify'.. Past history may come into play too..

    There is no reward for trusting, as trust itself is a reward.

      June 23, 2016 11:49 AM MDT
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  • 8

    Generally i would trust them less as its such a throw away comment that i feel is so over used it has lost meaning

      June 23, 2016 12:53 PM MDT
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  • 5808

    neither more nor less

    but my attention is

    more tuned in to their actions

      June 23, 2016 12:53 PM MDT
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  • 46117

    Trust me means little either way.  The actions are what I trust.  They can ask me to trust them till they are blue in the face.  I want to have a reason.  No that is not accurate; I need to have a reason why I shouldn't.  Then, if there are few to little reasons why I should not trust them,  I will make my decision based on performance.

      June 23, 2016 12:54 PM MDT
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  • 739
    No two words in the English language engender less trust than "trust me." Look at the question another way. Do you believe the AM user who calls himself "delivering the truth," delivers ve truth?
      June 24, 2016 5:50 AM MDT
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  • 17602

    less

      June 24, 2016 1:46 PM MDT
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  • It puts me on guard. We shouldn't have to say that. Trust is earned and proves itself out with actions.

      June 24, 2016 1:57 PM MDT
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  • 22891

    less and especially when they say it

      June 25, 2016 8:51 PM MDT
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  • 5354

    No, but I do believe he think he does.

      June 26, 2016 4:57 PM MDT
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