Just because it was UNINTENTIONAL doesn't excuse it or change it or ameliorate it or mitigate it or make it easier to take. Dead is dead is dead. How you label it is irrelevant isn't it? The result is the same. Putting lipstick on that pig doesn't mean a thing. People do it all the time anyway. Garish bawdy gawdy horrendous horrific. "How to lipstick a pig" is something that's taught somewhere in some public relations firm. "Let's call it something else". SIGH.