how would you react? Would you think I was rude?
Meh.
I heard on the radio about 30 minutes ago that the WalMart store chain‘s corporate office has ordered its stores to stop selling “All Lives Matter” merchandise because it appears to some people or may appear to some people that it minimizes or ridicules “Black Lives Matter”. From the ridiculous to the sublime, right?
You deserve Asker’s Pick.
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“ . . . the more coloured a person is . . . ”
No human beings have transparent skin, none are colorless. All human beings are pigmented, even Caucasian people. I know that you’re Australian and the word “coloured” is or may be acceptable there when referring to some people’s race, ethnicity or skin colour. In the US, however, it has been out of favor for a few decades, and its use today is considered both insulting and demeaning.
“ . . . the darker a person is . . . ”
Or
“ . . . the darker a person‘s skin/pigmentation is . . . ”
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Thank you for your caring response filled with detailed information that helps lead to more understanding on my end also. At no point did I think you were being offensive nor intentionally using offensive language, because as I stated, cultural differences between countries is a reality, and you are not directly aware of all the nuances and idiosyncrasies of life here. [When I was in Perth, an Australian man was addressing me and my buddy, a Mexican-American man, and made a reference to a tourist attraction that was far from the city. He said, “It’s so far out that you’d need a black tracker to find it.” I didn’t even catch what he had said or what he meant, it’s an expression that doesn’t exist in the US, but the man’s wife lost all the colour on her face and made her husband apologize to us. Had she not mentioned anything, I never would have even noticed what he had said.]
I can only imagine what types of horrors are broadcast worldwide from US movies and television programs that give inaccurate or embarrassing perspectives of life here (The Jerry Springer Show immediately springs to mind). Prior to the 1970s (approximation), the word “colored” was in common use, in the 1950s and before, it was “Negro”. If there are media images that project either of those, I’m willing to bet they are older programs.
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Wow, that is extremely conscientious of you to even consider editing it, and even more so that you carried it out. I had not expected you to do that based on what I wrote, I feel out of place because your words are your words. Like I stated, culturally and in line with customs and societal norms, your wording may be appropriate in its setting there, but I do admit that on the receiving end here, it cut close to the quick personally.
Having stated all of that, and after reading your edited version, I really have to hand it to you, it’s beautifully rewritten, such to the point that now I believe that I should delete all of my posts that followed it! No vestiges of what I discussed remain in the edited version, making my protestations echo off of empty walls. Pay me no mind on that, I will reserve deleting until I hear from you or others if you believe it’s warranted. Whether I delete anything or not, all of what you and I have written here can possibly be of assistance to many other people, opening up perspectives that perhaps they had not considered previously.
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This actually opens up a whole other can of worms. Among some black Americans, there is extreme and bitter, divisiveness over the topic of darker-medium-lighter skin. It can get as ugly as not wanting to intermarry, snobbishness in workplaces, etc.
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