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Is there someone in your life who needs to forgive you but for some reason has not yet done it?

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Posted - July 1, 2020

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  • 4624
    My sister holds a deep, profound and malicious grudge against me because I no longer allow her to use and abuse me.
    She believes that, as her sister, it's my duty to be at her beck and call.
    She will very likely hold that grudge till the day I die and beyond.
    But then, she treats everyone that way until they abandon her.
     
    I suppose it should be me who forgives her. The circumstances of her childhood were far worse than mine because she was two and a half years younger, more vulnerable and less able to understand.

    Even so, the boundary of separation is necessary.
      July 1, 2020 2:04 PM MDT
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  • 53524

     

      I recognize that same dynamic because it exists among my family members also. 

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      July 1, 2020 2:17 PM MDT
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  • 44649
    My first wife for how she treated my children when I was gone at sea. And apologize to them. The things my daughter said horrified me.
      July 1, 2020 7:40 PM MDT
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      Wait, she should forgive you for things that she did to your children?????

    :|

      July 1, 2020 10:23 PM MDT
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  • 7408
    Not that I’m aware of, I would hope not. 
      July 1, 2020 8:13 PM MDT
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