I misread your question. Certainly with no fault of your question, I 'read' it as:
What is "falling together exactly the way you want it to" -- as in, "what does that phrase mean to me?" and "how long has it taken me to figure out what it means?"
And I thought of Laurie Anderson's song "Walking and Falling" - - I like the song a lot. wel, she just speaks through it. The "falling" part comes in at the 1:00 mark. It's only about two minutes in length. You might like it or it might drive you crazy. Anderson can be that way. She's a goddess of music for me. :)
so -- "Walking and Falling" Laurie Anderson and it's taken me a life time of walking and falling and loving it all. :)
(Yikes - - I'm late- - have to go back to work0
This post was edited by WelbyQuentin at July 27, 2020 5:01 PM MDT