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"My child care costs more than my mortgage". Can that be true? Is it true for you or anyone you know? How is that affordable?

Posted - August 20, 2021

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  • 520
    This breaks it down pretty well:

    National Average Weekly Rates

      2020 2019 2020 2019   One Child One Child Two Children Two Children Nanny $612  $565  $654  $585  Child care center (toddler)* $340  $182  $640**  $346**  Family care center* $300  $177  $570**  $336** After-school Sitter $244  $243  $248  $246 
      August 20, 2021 8:00 AM MDT
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  • 113301
    Thank you very much for your extremely informative and helpful reply to my question glenho. I appreciate it a lot! That is scary to me. Who makes that kind of money among the "working class" which is what I always was? Happy Friday to thee and thine m'dear! :)
      August 20, 2021 8:10 AM MDT
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  • 520
    Right. Child care costs are ridiculous. 
      August 20, 2021 8:21 AM MDT
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  • 113301
    Normally I'd reply with a :):):). Well I do to you for your participation in this thread glenho but the information you provide is not happyface worthy! Which of course is not your fault! Just so ya know! :)
      August 20, 2021 8:25 AM MDT
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  • 10953
    Our son and his wife pay a lot for day care. What makes me mad is for years our goverment has been promising affordable substadized  day care but never put it through. And now that we are having a election the promise is 10X louder but you know they won't do anything about it once the election is over. Cheers and happy  weekend!
      August 20, 2021 8:23 AM MDT
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  • 113301
    I am kinda shocked at your reply Nanoose. I thought Canada provided very affordable health care child care and and other kind of care for their citizens because they CARE. But they don't? Geez I'm disappointed. I know there is no country that is perfect but I always thought Canada and Australia were as close as you could come to it. Another idol falls. Thank you for your reply and Happy Friday to thee and thine! :) This post was edited by RosieG at August 20, 2021 3:02 PM MDT
      August 20, 2021 8:27 AM MDT
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  • 6023
    The sad irony is that Child Care is a necessity for most middle-income families ... as both parents have to work, in order to afford just the basics of housing and food.  Few families can afford to have only a single earner.

    And as the price of housing, gas, and food increases - it is only going to get worse.
      August 20, 2021 8:48 AM MDT
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  • 44543
    Why was that not true 40 years ago when my children were very young? My wife didn't work and we did fine on my Navy salary.
      August 20, 2021 3:04 PM MDT
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  • 13277
    Because times change. Lots of things are true and exist today that didn't exist then, such as the Internet and this website.
      August 20, 2021 3:07 PM MDT
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  • 44543
    True, but the internet is cheap and this site is free. I think many couples' spending is out of control. I don't know the statistics, but I would imagine a large majority of parents have a large credit debt.
      August 20, 2021 3:11 PM MDT
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  • 13277
    That's a sweeping generalization that may or may not be true. What is true is that the cost of living has increased more than real income.
      August 20, 2021 3:15 PM MDT
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  • 44543
    For most...another generalization, but I have never experienced that. My salaries have always kept up with the COL.
      August 20, 2021 3:22 PM MDT
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  • 13277
    Good for you. Not everyone works for the government.
      August 20, 2021 3:32 PM MDT
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  • 6023
    Did you live on base housing? (Less expensive than off-base, right?)
    Were you aboard ship most of the time?  (That is free meals, right?)

    Do you think your children can purchase/rent the same size house today, for the amount you spent 40 years ago?

    According to economists, this is the first generation in America that will have a lower standard of living than their parents.
    Why?  Because the same wages do not have as much purchasing power.
      August 23, 2021 7:25 AM MDT
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  • 44543
    My children are doing much better than I am financially. Yes, I lived at four Navy bases during my career and was on three ships.
      August 23, 2021 9:55 AM MDT
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  • 6023
    Good for your family.  I mean that.

    However, in general, if a child has the same job as their parent today, they are making a lower standard of living because wages have not kept up with the cost of living.

    Even people who are working are having less purchasing power, if their annual increase doesn't keep up with inflation.

    Personally, in 2020 I had a 3% wage increase.
    Inflation was 1.25% ... so my effective wage increase was 1.75%.

    In 2021, I again had a 3% wage increase.
    But inflation is expected to be 2.26% this year.  That drops my effective wage increase to 0.74%.

    Actually, it's probably less than those numbers because prices are higher in my area.

      August 23, 2021 10:01 AM MDT
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  • 44543
    Those numbers are unfortunate. In the last eight years of my teaching career, step salary increases for longevity disappeared and two levies provided very low pay increases. That, and other reasons, caused an increase in retirements.
      August 23, 2021 10:09 AM MDT
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  • 6023
    Our union contracts have 2 pay increases ... 1 step increase on anniversary, and 1 Cost-Of-Living increase on the date of the agreement ratification anniversary.  Except there are no anniversary increases for years 16-19 and 21-24, or after 25 years.  Both increases are necessary to stay (slightly) ahead of inflation.

    Personally, I think wage increases for hourly employees should be tied to the amount of inflation PLUS.
    So if an employer gives a 3% wage increase ... but inflation is 2% ... the increase should be 5%.
    I even tried suggesting that to the union I was in, but they were not interested.  So much for unions caring about the membership.
      August 23, 2021 11:15 AM MDT
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  • 13277
    Would you rather see child care providers be unable to afford their rent or mortgage payments? People who provide a valuable service deserve to be paid. What about attorneys who help people get out of legal jams or accountants who help people with tax issues? What if paying them costs more than rent or mortgage payments? What do you want to do about that?

    Nobody is forced to have children. If you don't wish to take responsibility and bear the expenses for their care, then don't have kids. Or stay home and take care of them yourself. Nobody is entitled to anything.
    This post was edited by Stu Spelling Bee at August 20, 2021 3:05 PM MDT
      August 20, 2021 9:00 AM MDT
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  • 19938
    Sometimes, circumstances force people to have to work rather than stay home and take care of their children.  A woman who finds herself a divorcee or perhaps a widow may have to go to work and with a reduced income, may find it difficult to pay for child care.  
      August 20, 2021 10:37 AM MDT
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  • 13277
    So what's the solution? They have no right to expect providers to work for less. Everyone has their issues.
      August 20, 2021 10:43 AM MDT
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  • 6023
    There are a couple solutions, but none that are ideal.

    One solution would be to impose price controls on all necessities.
    But then someone has to define what a necessity is.
    IE: a single person doesn't NEED a 4-bedroom home ... so would the price control on that only apply to families with 4 members in the household?  But if a single person wanted to buy it, the seller could ask for whatever price the buyer was willing to pay.

    OR ... internet access now seems to be a necessity, since so few places take "in person" applications anymore.
    But what speed is necessary?  Give everybody a minimum speed, and if you want faster you have to pay a premium?
      August 20, 2021 11:16 AM MDT
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  • 19938
    No one forces child care providers to do that work.  If they can do something else to earn enough money to keep themselves then they should do that.  I'm not sure what the answer is, but with more and more families needing two incomes, perhaps there needs to be some sort of universal childcare available.
      August 20, 2021 11:45 AM MDT
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  • 13277
    Who forces anybody to do any particular kind of work? What about two-income families where one income comes from being a child-care provider? And universal child care sounds great, but with it comes the ages-old question of who pays? Perhaps government, but most people wouldn't want their taxes raised to cover it, and no politician wants to be known for raising taxes.
      August 20, 2021 12:02 PM MDT
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