Until they exceed double the estimated completion time they are probably about par for the course. Even my guys who did a great job for me, took almost twice as long as they estimated. In the end you will have a freshly painted (and I don't know what else) kitchen. That will be uplifting I hope. Hang in there!
I admit at times I am completely and thoroughly depressed enough to sit in front of tv or computer. I would call it wallowing in self pity. I admit also, it feels good sometimes. However, the bottom line is life isn't meant to be spent this way. Counseling and medication help immensely.!