Are most folks more obsessed with what they have or what they don't? What occupies your thoughts most and why?

Does "I don't need a reason" mean you don't know what it is? Isn't there a reason for everything whether you are aware of it or not ele? If not that would mean you go through life doing/saying what you do  unfettered by reason/logic/plan/control/direction/goal.  Is that really what you do? Aimlessly move hither and yon just like a tumbleweed propelled by an unseen wind? I don't think so. You just don't want to share your reason. That's fine with me. Thank you for your reply! :)