Is agreeing to disagree the same as disagreeing to agree?

Either you're coining a new phrase or you've omitted a necessary comma. 

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With what?

With it being the same. Wasn't it your question?

Well, in asking the question I'm not stating anything, so it technically can't be agreed with or disagreed with, BUT, I do see your point. You're saying that you don't agree that disagreeing to agree is the same as agreeing to disagree. 
You win. 

*Sigh. 
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That's what I'm saying. I did not say if I disagree with you or not; how can ! As you haven't stated your own believing?

Yes, we both agree on that. 

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Don't tell anyone. ;-)

Are you kidding? This goes to the grave with me. I won't even reveal it on my deathbed. "Then there was that time, and I assure you that it was only ONE time, that Sapphic and I saw things the same way in some matter. I don't remember the details, it was decades ago, but for a brief moment, the stars aligned with the moon or particles of molecules of something blew in with the wind, and clarity and wisdom fell into place. The entire world was beautiful for that brief second, and peacefulness settled everywhere. It didn't last long, and luckily we reverted to our respective imaginary corners."

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Good. Let's hurry to put this one behind us. Looking forward, looking forward...