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How many times should your friend request be ignored before you find out where the person ignoring you lives so you can visit them?

You WILL accept my friend request!


inspired by a poll by Randy D

Posted - December 18, 2016

Responses


  • 53509
    This will NOT end well for you.




    ~

      December 18, 2016 12:38 AM MST
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  • 5451
    My tildes will come to my rescue!

    *evil laughs*

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      December 18, 2016 12:45 AM MST
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  • 53509
    "Your" tildes? You mean the tildes you stole, right?



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      December 18, 2016 7:52 AM MST
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  • 5451
    The tildes willingly left you to follow me.

    I didn't steal the tildes.  I only stole their hearts.

    They just love me!
      December 18, 2016 4:20 PM MST
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  • 17261
    B-but... I did accept your friendship right away, Miss... as anything else you have requested..!?
      December 18, 2016 2:18 AM MST
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  • 5451
    Yes you did!  Well done :-)
      December 18, 2016 4:18 PM MST
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  • 17261
    Thank you Miss. :-)
      December 18, 2016 4:23 PM MST
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  • 46117
    Oh I have a "friend" from Answer Bag who ignored my request for about 5 years. 

    I just left it there.   

    Some people don't even notice that thing.  The request.    Just leave it there as a torment.  
      December 18, 2016 7:27 AM MST
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  • 53509
    Hey, wait. If the person ignored the request, then she or he never became your friend, right?

    :|
      December 18, 2016 7:30 AM MST
    0

  • 5451
    I ignored a friend request on AM for about a month but not on purpose.  The friend request icon at the top of the page didn't show a number 1 in that little red circle for about four weeks.
      December 18, 2016 4:24 PM MST
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  • 19937
    There is someone on here who has made a friend request at least five times, all of which I have ignored.  One would think he have gotten the message by now.  It's unfortunate that the choices are to "confirm" or "not now."  There should be a third one - "not ever."
      December 18, 2016 12:21 PM MST
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  • 53509
    I agree, great idea!
    ~
      December 18, 2016 1:10 PM MST
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  • 5451
    No one has ever turned down my friend requests!

    I'm shy *blushes*  I never sent one lol but I've accepted every friend request I received :)

      December 18, 2016 4:31 PM MST
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  • 19937
    Well, I have sent out requests to several people who came over here with me from another site and two or three who were instrumental in alerting me to this site.  However, I have turned down one person consistently because I just don't think I have anything in common with a trashbag - sexy or otherwise.
      December 18, 2016 5:27 PM MST
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  • 17261
    You won't be the only turning that person down. He agreed to stop sending me requests after a short exchange of IM's. However, he kept it up. I've now told him in public inside his questions that I don't want to accept a friendship, and that I see very little, if any in common.
      December 18, 2016 10:59 PM MST
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  • 19937
    I haven't told him directly to stop sending me friend requests because I thought after 5-6 refusals, he'd get the message.  Apparently I was wrong, which means that he would probably not stop even if I asked him directly not to do that. 
      December 19, 2016 9:13 PM MST
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  • 17261
    You're likely right about that. Unfortunately. There will be a few of these guys around. I have never experienced it with a woman. Not here, and not the other sites I have used previously. This seems to be a guy thing. Sighs.
      December 20, 2016 1:16 AM MST
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  • 19937
    I have found it to be a guy thing, too.  Right after I posted about this, I got another friend request. :)
      December 20, 2016 8:52 PM MST
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  • 3463
    That's because you are so cute.
      December 20, 2016 10:16 PM MST
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  • 19937
    [blushing] Thank you. :)
      December 21, 2016 7:50 AM MST
    1

  • 2465
    I totally agree!!
      December 19, 2016 3:26 AM MST
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