Discussion»Questions»Computers and the Internet» How many times should your friend request be ignored before you find out where the person ignoring you lives so you can visit them?
I ignored a friend request on AM for about a month but not on purpose. The friend request icon at the top of the page didn't show a number 1 in that little red circle for about four weeks.
There is someone on here who has made a friend request at least five times, all of which I have ignored. One would think he have gotten the message by now. It's unfortunate that the choices are to "confirm" or "not now." There should be a third one - "not ever."
Well, I have sent out requests to several people who came over here with me from another site and two or three who were instrumental in alerting me to this site. However, I have turned down one person consistently because I just don't think I have anything in common with a trashbag - sexy or otherwise.
You won't be the only turning that person down. He agreed to stop sending me requests after a short exchange of IM's. However, he kept it up. I've now told him in public inside his questions that I don't want to accept a friendship, and that I see very little, if any in common.
I haven't told him directly to stop sending me friend requests because I thought after 5-6 refusals, he'd get the message. Apparently I was wrong, which means that he would probably not stop even if I asked him directly not to do that.
You're likely right about that. Unfortunately. There will be a few of these guys around. I have never experienced it with a woman. Not here, and not the other sites I have used previously. This seems to be a guy thing. Sighs.
Randy D 