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Are you an isolationist/independent/on your own and alone? Do reject help and never offer it? Why?

Posted - February 18, 2017

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  • 3191
    Isolationism is simply the doctrine of minding one's own business.  I do not meddle in my neighbor's business, nor they in mine.  That doesn't mean we aren't neighborly, we are.  It doesn't mean we don't transact business with each other, we do.  

    If they see I could use  hand with something, they offer assistance.  If I can do something to help them, I do.  We do not try to tell each other what to do, though.  Nor do we meddle in each other's disputes that do not directly involve us.  
      February 18, 2017 5:21 AM MST
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  • So true.
    It's like people who give unsolicited help or feel they need to run up and butt into your arguments that has nothing to do with them and just make more problems for you or results you didn't want. It's an attack on your own autonomy and desires. It's to be said that there is a difference between pulling someone out of the way of the train they don't see and say forcing medicine down their throat they chose not to take. This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at February 18, 2017 12:17 PM MST
      February 18, 2017 8:48 AM MST
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  • 3191
    I fail to see why such a simple concept is so difficult for some to grasp.
      February 18, 2017 12:18 PM MST
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  • I'm not sure but it seems to correlate with the focus of positive rights and the denigration of negative rights.
      February 18, 2017 12:25 PM MST
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  • 3191
    I almost responded that perhaps they automatically associate "negative rights" with actually being something negative...but then I realized that would be giving them too much credit, eh?  
      February 18, 2017 12:34 PM MST
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  • I think a lot of things come down to that kind of logic over semantics.
      February 18, 2017 12:37 PM MST
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  • 22891
    i tend to be isolated a lot but not by choice, people just dont seem to want to hang out with me and not sure why
      February 18, 2017 9:39 PM MST
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