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Self-hatred?

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Posted - March 26, 2017

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  • 13071
    Bad hair day?
      March 26, 2017 12:30 PM MDT
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  • 6477
    No sweetnes... it's a horribly counterproductive thing... I wish more people learned to love themselves and to be able to view themselves more accurately - strengths and weaknesses.
      March 26, 2017 12:34 PM MDT
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  • 6126
      March 26, 2017 12:41 PM MDT
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  • 22891
    its not me i hate, its others that are unfair to me
      March 26, 2017 2:39 PM MDT
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  •   March 26, 2017 2:40 PM MDT
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  • 5614
    What toxic society teaches, so come ye out of Babylon. This post was edited by O-uknow at April 1, 2017 5:17 PM MDT
      March 26, 2017 2:44 PM MDT
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  • 17364
    No, I like me.  I like you too.
      March 26, 2017 3:18 PM MDT
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  • Achieves what exactly?
    One day you'll realise you don't deserve this feelings ... Sure, we all screw up, make mistakes and do things were not proud of maybe ... But learn from them and move on ... One day you will ... Why not make that day today?
      March 26, 2017 4:07 PM MDT
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  • Yes. For decades.
      March 26, 2017 4:50 PM MDT
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  • My fecal father poisoned my entire life.  But to myself much fault is attributed.
      March 26, 2017 5:01 PM MDT
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  • 6126
    I second what WW has said.  You possess a very sharp wit.  I'm sorry you can't seem to throw off those chains that bind you.  
      March 26, 2017 5:07 PM MDT
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  • Thanks. But one may not embrace the good and not acknowledge the bad.
      April 1, 2017 5:10 PM MDT
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  • 7280
    Some things are difficult to overcome without professional help.  If this continues, I suggest you seek someone to help you evaluate whether you are inappropriately assuming some blame that does not belong to you.
      March 26, 2017 5:11 PM MDT
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  • Thank you, but one must also assess and accept responsibility for one's own faults.
      April 1, 2017 5:09 PM MDT
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  • 7280
    "But" negates everything I said in my reply.---That would be a serious error on anyone's part.---I would accept a statement phrased, "It is also necessary to assess and accept responsibility for one's own faults."---(I assumed that would be done.)---

    If multiple causation is suspected, differential diagnosis is necessary----which requires the assignment of blame to the responsible factors---all of which many not reside in you.
      April 3, 2017 12:47 PM MDT
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  • The citing of "but" is being a bit pedantic.  Yes, perhaps carelessly chosen on my part, any reader though will see the meaning intended.  

    All my fault? No, certainly not. A great deal is the way my father has poisoned my entire life. 
      April 3, 2017 1:24 PM MDT
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  • 7280
    I was only concerned for you here.---

    Some people were raised by being shamed and guilted and are therefore prone to thinking that carrying the world on their shoulders is their primary responsibility.---

    I'm ecstatic that you do not have that issue---it can be permanently debilitating.---

    Keep up your journey; be well.
      April 3, 2017 1:34 PM MDT
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  • Thank you.
      April 3, 2017 1:52 PM MDT
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  • 7776
    Maybe just a little, but I'm working on it.
      March 26, 2017 5:14 PM MDT
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  • 7776
    Well..................ok. You gave me a push in the right direction. However, I do have some love to share with you if you want it. This post was edited by Zack at April 3, 2017 2:28 PM MDT
      March 26, 2017 5:26 PM MDT
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  • 5808
     pity the fool that does
      March 27, 2017 4:56 PM MDT
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  • 2960
      March 28, 2017 10:31 AM MDT
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  • Bring in the clowns?
      April 3, 2017 1:20 PM MDT
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  • Once or twice.. . . A week.
      April 1, 2017 6:14 PM MDT
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