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Benedict Arnold

Girls: Have you ever had two men get into a physical fight over you?

This question is inspired by two male pigeons I saw fighting fiercely over a female, who watched patiently from a distance and then started lovingly pecking the victor's neck, presumably indicating her sexual willingness.

Posted - March 27, 2017
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  • This nearly happened for me, but better "sense" prevailed. 
    I wish it hadn't! 
      March 27, 2017 5:50 PM MDT
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  • 53509
    Neelie, had it happened, which one of them would you have chosen, and would it have depended on which one prevailed, or on which one of them you liked more?


    ~ 
      March 27, 2017 9:18 PM MDT
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  • I don't know. I must admit I have been uncharacteristically "naughty" of late. 
      March 28, 2017 6:22 PM MDT
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  • No, I have not .  Why the hell have'nt I?? -_- ...... ;)
      March 27, 2017 5:44 PM MDT
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  • This nearly happened for me, but better "sense" prevailed. 
    I wish it hadn't! 
      March 27, 2017 5:49 PM MDT
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  • Sometimes it's OK for better sense to take a back seat and let the age old rituals of competition run their course. I suspect that the reason you "wish it hadn't" is because, like a lot of ladies you'd like to see what these guys are made of and what they have in the category of put up or shut up. It's natural and normal.
      March 27, 2017 5:58 PM MDT
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  • You're very correct, and I would have been hugely flattered. 
      March 27, 2017 6:02 PM MDT
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  • Haha :) I wouldn't really want it happen ... But now I'm wondering why never did -_- ... ;)
      March 27, 2017 6:03 PM MDT
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  • 169
    No.... My stalker ex sent his buddy over to fight this guy I was seeing. Turns out the 2 knew each other and his buddy left without an argument.
      March 27, 2017 5:49 PM MDT
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  • This nearly happened for me, but better "sense" prevailed. 
    I wish it hadn't! 
      March 27, 2017 5:51 PM MDT
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  • 169
    By the time that happened.... I was just sick of the entire situation. I ended up telling the ex we needed to talk and chewed him out - and threatened to get a restraining order. It took 6 or so years for him to get the picture.
      March 27, 2017 6:03 PM MDT
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  • 22891
    no, i never even had one guy interested in me let alone two of them
      March 27, 2017 5:52 PM MDT
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  • Thank you. 
      March 27, 2017 6:03 PM MDT
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  • Nope.
    Seems a bit silly to me... You win the fight and probably pee the girl off so she doesn't want you anyway..
     Now If there was a third guy who bought flowers while the first two were fighting..
      March 27, 2017 5:53 PM MDT
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  • So? 
      March 27, 2017 6:08 PM MDT
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  • 78
    Bingo!!!!
      March 27, 2017 8:17 PM MDT
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  • 2327
    Tyson Fury can beat anybody on the planet. That's right! He's the toughest guy in the world! Nobody can beat him. You could send 5 angry boyfriends after him, and they would all be unconscious withing seconds. Try to take his wife if you dare guys. 

    He's the chubby one in the awful button-up. 

      March 27, 2017 6:53 PM MDT
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  • Wha???!!!
      March 28, 2017 8:03 PM MDT
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  • 78
    Yes, a few times...and I was never impressed or felt special, just annoyed. When two guys fight over you it's NOT about YOU it's about THEIR egos.
      March 27, 2017 8:15 PM MDT
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  • Bongo back and yes  you hit the nail on the head
      March 28, 2017 3:52 PM MDT
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  • No, and if I did I'd find the entire thing creepy and dehumanizing. I am not a prize to be won.
      March 27, 2017 9:31 PM MDT
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  • 6098
    Hi Neelie, this is Donna (officegirl).  I reactivated an old e mail account so we could chat privately.  But when I kept posting it for you on AB they blocked my access to the site. I can tell you when I figure out how to use the private messaging on AM.  Wonderful to be in contact with you once more.
      March 28, 2017 3:48 PM MDT
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  • I've sent you a private message. 
      March 28, 2017 6:02 PM MDT
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  • 6098
    Not sure if we have already talked about this but when I was still a teenage I went west with two older guys in their van and eventually started being with both.  Sore tailbone from being on my back in the back of the van or in the desert!  After a while they fought over who had "rights" to me.  I told them neither of them had such "rights" and that was it until the end of the trip when I knew I was going to miss them.
      March 28, 2017 3:59 PM MDT
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