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If your partner cheats on you for the first time and confesses, would you forgive?

Or would you take the stand that a cheater once is a cheater always? 

Posted - April 1, 2017

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  • 7795
    I couldn't tell you with any certainty what I would do until I was in that situation.
      April 1, 2017 7:31 PM MDT
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  • 132
    I couldn't forgive.
      April 1, 2017 7:32 PM MDT
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  • 8214
    He is not going to cheat on me and I am not going to cheat on him...ever.   end of story.
      April 1, 2017 7:56 PM MDT
    2

  • 22891
    i would probably dump him to be honest
      April 1, 2017 9:21 PM MDT
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  • 7939
    It depends on their motive for cheating and exactly what occurred.
      April 1, 2017 10:25 PM MDT
    1

  • There may not be an intention to cheat, but sometimes human weakness cannot get us to resist temptation. This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at April 2, 2017 4:11 AM MDT
      April 1, 2017 11:15 PM MDT
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  • 8214
    Use the 12 step program.  You take 12 steps back and say no.  it's simple as that. 
      April 2, 2017 4:06 AM MDT
    1