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Which pleasant or unpleasant incident you can't wipe out of your memory?

Posted - June 14, 2017

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  • 7776
    All of them.
      June 14, 2017 9:13 PM MDT
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  • 7683
    Agree Zack, many memories are vivid!
      June 14, 2017 11:01 PM MDT
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  • Memories of really fun times with my friends I can't rid of and I don't want to. Even years later I get a big smile on my face thinking back to some of those times. 
      June 14, 2017 9:40 PM MDT
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  • 7683
    Nostalgia;))
      June 14, 2017 11:02 PM MDT
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  • I can't wipe any of my most pleasant or unpleasant memories out. I wouldn't want to wipe out either though:)
      June 14, 2017 9:51 PM MDT
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  • 7683
    Yes Jamie, but I don't want unpleasant memories to linger....;((
      June 14, 2017 11:06 PM MDT
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  • 17364
    An airport goodbye comes to mind. 
      June 14, 2017 10:59 PM MDT
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  • 7683
    Goodbyes are like that!
      June 14, 2017 11:06 PM MDT
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  • 1713
    Something I was so scared and ashamed of that I have never reported it to authorities. I like to pretend it was just a twisted nightmare and hopefully I can convince my brain that it never really happened.
      June 14, 2017 11:58 PM MDT
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  • 7683
    It still seems to bother you....it seems....some incidents leave concrete imprints...hope it gets erased with time.....!
      June 15, 2017 11:06 PM MDT
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  • 44
    Unpleasant: Each day I spent in a past abusive relationship, refusing to leave and defending him. 

    Pleasant: Time spent with my current fiance, which erases all of the bad from before ♥
      June 15, 2017 5:59 AM MDT
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  • 7683
    I hope your pleasant memories grow and you leave behind all the unpleasant ones!
      June 15, 2017 11:08 PM MDT
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  • The bellowing rages of my bitter and hate filled father.  His unending nit picking petty bullying and his laughable stupidity.
      June 15, 2017 7:43 AM MDT
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  • 7683
    It is indeed sad....!
      June 15, 2017 11:09 PM MDT
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  • As a sibling said, "It is a sad thing when the best you can say of your father is, 'At least he never beat up one of his kids."

    My father was a bucket of excrement.  And quite possibly the most stupid thing in the universe. 
      June 16, 2017 7:34 AM MDT
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  • 7280
    On the up side, at least you exist.
      June 16, 2017 10:28 AM MDT
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  • Your post is ambiguous. do you suggest I should be grateful to the bucket that I exist?
      June 18, 2017 7:57 PM MDT
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  • 7280
    Sorry, I also have a number of negatives in my upbringing.  I have managed to overcome them with professional help.  At that point, I was definitely glad to be alive.  Less so when I was still affected by the negatives.
      June 19, 2017 10:00 AM MDT
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  • I too am generally glad to be alive.  However if my existence was not the case there would not be a me to be glad of, or to regret that situation, so the point is somewhat moot.  This is what I at first thought you were setting out, that I should be grateful to my father that I do exist.

    Overcoming is very difficult, no?
      June 19, 2017 10:27 AM MDT
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  • 7280
    Indeed it is---and sometimes effective impossible to do so.
      June 20, 2017 4:02 PM MDT
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  • The Bucket has poisoned my entire life.
      June 20, 2017 4:13 PM MDT
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  • 7280
    In my case it was my mother---I was finally able to overcome the effects of my childhood abuse, but it took professional help to do so.

    And it wasn't until I was 65 that I was able to accomplish that---but I assure you, as late as that was, it was infinitely better than if it had not happened until I was 66.

    No matter how much of your life you have left after you have overcome the effects of your abuse, whatever you have left is so high quality that the negatives you previously had to deal with shrink drastically in comparative size.

    It does require some significant effort to accomplish, but I would urge you strongly to look into doing so. 
      June 21, 2017 10:20 AM MDT
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  • Therapy for me would be taking a huge fetid dump on his grave.
      June 21, 2017 7:58 PM MDT
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  • 7280
    If the past cannot be separated from the future, then it is still the "present."

    The man is dead and yet you still chose to allow him to determine how you live your daily life.

    Perhaps excrement, while symbolic, would not be the answer.  A therapist can help you dig him up and show you how to use a stake and a silver bullet to put both of you out of his misery

    I feel your pain.  I strongly urge you to put him out of his misery so that you too can escape.
      June 22, 2017 11:53 AM MDT
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