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It what you say most important or how you say it?

In my experience those who act most like they know what they are talking about are more likely to be believed.  Donald Trump - I rest my case.

Posted - June 16, 2017

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  • I believe it's all in how you say it. example: I say " that's nice" often.
    can mean :
    -that is nice
    - I wasn't listening
    - shut up :/ 
    -I hate your guts
    -fook off , I hate your guts and or youe face
    - HUH?
    I pick how say it then. Final answer.... that's nice of me :) 
     
      June 16, 2017 11:17 PM MDT
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  • 1138
    I also think it is most important in 'how' you are saying something. The 'what' doesn't matter as much b/c it is all about how you intended to interact with that person... how you intended to be with them, if you were say revealing sad or upsetting news but did it with grace and kindness, it would be much more accepted and peaceful to the person than if done with fervor or drama. Great question.
      June 16, 2017 11:49 PM MDT
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  • 22891
    i think theyre both equally important
      June 17, 2017 5:44 PM MDT
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