Sorry, I think I was speaking more for myself. Please don't be offended. I didn't intend to offend anyone.
This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at July 11, 2017 6:30 AM MDT
No because when things are going well I get comfortable and my emotions tend not to stray. Even though physically I might and often do stray which means I have to put brakes on my emotions which I am pretty accustomed to doing. Years ago I began seeing the guy who lived above my boyfriend and fell for him so did feel that though I stayed with my boyfriend until he finally realized I was seeing someone else which was after a couple of months. Which brought it all into the open and forced the breakup. Then though I loved the guy upstairs it was a while before I committed myself to him because I felt I should be more independent. Then once I did eventually I started seeing my former boyfriend because I missed sex with him though emotionally I was committed to the other guy. What a tangled web. But mostly I wait until a relationship runs its course and has ended before I deal with the emotional fallout of breaking up.