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Do you read the notes on flowers at funerals to see who sent what?

Apparently, that's a thing. 

Posted - July 30, 2017

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  • 7132
    Seems kinda tacky to me, unless I'm the family of the deceased.
      July 30, 2017 11:12 PM MDT
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  • 7919
    I thought so as well, but I was talking to someone about sending a funeral bouquet, and their only motivation to send one was, "What will people think if they don't see my name on something?" Eh. 
      July 31, 2017 12:25 AM MDT
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  • 7132
    Lol.... but enough about the deceased. It's all about ME!

    I do fear for this world if such a person becomes our typical caretaker.
      July 31, 2017 12:33 AM MDT
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  • 13071
    No, i just take the flowers when their done with them. ;+
      July 31, 2017 12:32 AM MDT
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  • 6477
    Maybe I'd read a few, just to show interest and respect.  But not really my thing and if would probably make me cry - I am a sensitive thing who cries easily. 
      July 31, 2017 1:55 AM MDT
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  • 19942
    No.  I can't recall the last non-Jewish funeral I attended and the Jews don't do the flower thing.  They bring food to the home after the funeral while the family sits shiva.
      July 31, 2017 7:33 AM MDT
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  • 22891
    no cause noone sent anything that i know of at funerals to be honest, not sure why
      July 31, 2017 3:50 PM MDT
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