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Why is it considered acceptable for a girl to hit on a guy, but when a guy hits on a girl it's harassment?

Posted - August 13, 2017

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  • Ladies' privilege in a man's world? 
      August 13, 2017 7:25 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    Oh really?

    When a girl hits on a guy it can be perceived in many ways.  Sometimes it is delightful and invited.  Sometimes it is perceived as stalking or desperation.  Being a chick is not as easy as it looks, guys.


      August 13, 2017 8:08 PM MDT
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  •   August 13, 2017 8:36 PM MDT
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  • 7939
    It's not harassment in any case unless the other party says they're not interested and the one doing the hitting-on persists. 
      August 13, 2017 8:38 PM MDT
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  • 16781
    A customer accused me of harassment because I was "staring at her breasts". I wasn't, I had been looking in the wrong direction testing an LED light and was dazzled. All I could see was pink and green spots, so if her boobs were behind the spots I was unaware of it - just trying to clear the after image. 
      August 13, 2017 8:59 PM MDT
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  • Your eyelid movements probably sent her the wrong signals.
      August 13, 2017 11:42 PM MDT
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  • 22891
    maybe cause the girls dont like it while the guy does
      August 14, 2017 2:56 PM MDT
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