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How do you earn a man's love?

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Posted - September 23, 2017

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  • 17364
    There is no checklist.
      September 23, 2017 12:33 AM MDT
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  • 13395
    When you find the right man it should come naturally. 
      September 23, 2017 12:39 AM MDT
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  • 5354
    Feed him.
      September 23, 2017 4:19 AM MDT
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  • 7919
    *shrugs*
    It's funny because I gave a "sweet" answer on the woman question with no hesitation- love is given freely and unconditionally. But men, they do love differently, don't they? Or, maybe I just haven't known one who loved in the same way I did. I still don't think it's earned (although food always helps lol). Perhaps it grows instead, like a weed between the sidewalk slabs. Some revel in the beauty of the bloom, but it often gets snuffed out because it's "out of place," stomped on by unaware travelers, or poisoned. 
      September 23, 2017 1:07 PM MDT
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  • 44175
    Yes we do love differently.
      September 23, 2017 1:13 PM MDT
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  • 7919
    Then where's your answer?
      September 23, 2017 1:41 PM MDT
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  • 44175
    Well since this question was mainly for women, I was only commenting on your response. IOW...I don't know.
      September 23, 2017 1:46 PM MDT
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  • 7280
    Love of course is ultimately an act---something we do---preferably all the time and to the best of our ability.  Feelings come an go (You may remember that I have said that "real intimacy is rarely polite."

    That brain chemistry storm which frequently accompanies "infatuation" is determined greatly by our previous environment. After that (or in spite of that) we sometimes come (by choice or unfolding) to love that person and act accordingly---sometimes for ever.


      September 23, 2017 3:47 PM MDT
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