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Did this mother go too far in her reaction and was she really the one at fault

Posted - February 5, 2018
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  • 10026
    I try not to judge people.  But, in this scenario, I feel a judgement is needed. 
    She over-stepped her boundry, big time.  
    First, If she is so interested in her son's well-being, he should have pads on.  Where are they?  Where is his helmet?
    Second, the guy who was skating on his "line" had the right of way.  She should learn the rules of the skate parks before sending her small child in to play with the big boys.
    Third, the guy was considerate.  He stopped.  He wasn't skating out-of-line, or out-of-turn. 
    There was NO bullying or disrespect by him at all. 
    He apologized and was sincere in his apology.

    If she would like her son to skate as well as the guy who accidentally bumped into the little lad, she needs to send him to skate school. 
    Take him to a place that is confined to learning such tricks. 

    You wouldn't put a beginner swimmer in a pool with experienced swimmers and expect him to swim the length of the pool.  Why would she put her son in harms way at a skate park?

    Back to parenting and safety school for the parent.  The kid and the guy were not at fault.
    In my opinion, she was definitely out of line.

    Final answer.  

    Punishment:  Buy your kid the appropriate gear to learn to skate.
    Take your kid to skate school and put him in a safe skating environment.
    Go back and give this guy your sincere apology for placing him and your son in harms way.
    After your apology, you and your son are restricted from that skate park until I can see you have met all the above requirements.

    Signed,
    Judge Merlin This post was edited by Merlin at February 5, 2018 1:28 PM MST
      February 5, 2018 11:47 AM MST
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  • 3463
    You said it all Merlin.
      February 5, 2018 11:57 AM MST
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  • 10026
    Thank you Lulu's Mom!  Hugs and loves from one parent to another :)


      February 5, 2018 12:21 PM MST
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  • 34272
    Agree 100%. Nothing more can be added.
      February 5, 2018 11:59 AM MST
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  • 10026
    You are the best  my2cents!  Thanks :)  Have a great day :) :)
      February 5, 2018 12:22 PM MST
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  • 23577
    And I'm there with Lulu's Mom's and my2cents' replies.

    :)


      February 5, 2018 1:17 PM MST
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  • 10026

    Thank you James! :) :)  I appreciate it.  Have a great day :)

    And happy and safe-skating to you all that are still learning and those who are kind and knowing. This post was edited by Merlin at February 5, 2018 7:57 PM MST
      February 5, 2018 1:49 PM MST
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  • 2052
    Her little boy should not have been in the skate park. 
      February 5, 2018 11:49 AM MST
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  • 3463
    The little kid was not watching where he was going and he was the one who ran into the kid on the skateboard.
    The mother owes him a big apology for hitting him and being such a bi@#$.
      February 5, 2018 12:01 PM MST
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  • 10026
    Exactly! What sort of impression is she setting for the little guy?  Hitting and pushing?  Bad! Bad! Bad! on her behalf!
    She must have missed the chapter on "Leading by example!"
      February 5, 2018 12:24 PM MST
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  • 3463
    If that mother had come at me like that, I would have smashed her face in.
      February 5, 2018 1:23 PM MST
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  • 23577
    WAY over the top!

    (I purposely did not read any of the other answers before I posted mine.)

    That guy could not have been nicer to everyone after what he accidentally did.
      February 5, 2018 1:15 PM MST
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  • 46117
    The kid the mother hit, should sue her ass.
      February 5, 2018 1:36 PM MST
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  • 22891
    she went too far, accidents happen
      February 11, 2018 3:47 PM MST
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