I am from Japan, so a furisode kimono was traditional for young girls. With it, I wore proper accessories: shiro nagajuban, keku obi, obi-age, obi-jime, tabi and zori. In summer a yukata and getas were worn. Western clothing is worn some too.
The sad thing was that I wanted to keep up with the fashion of the time. That is when I cared what others thought about me. If you care what the fashion was in the late 80s, just look it up, and that was me. Men's clothing and not women's clothing, mind you.