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Do you have an interesting fact about your life that changed it forever? My father disappeared when I was six.

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Posted - April 20, 2018

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  • 23577
    One of my parents started to drink.

    (That'd be difficult about your dad - - best to you.) This post was edited by WelbyQuentin at April 20, 2018 8:10 PM MDT
      April 20, 2018 6:02 PM MDT
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  • 44619
    He took off with another woman...left seven of us.
      April 20, 2018 6:56 PM MDT
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  • 7792
    A divorce and a very messy one at that.
      April 20, 2018 6:06 PM MDT
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  • 23577
    that'd be tough -- sorry to hear
      April 20, 2018 6:10 PM MDT
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  • 7792
    A lot more tough than you'll ever know my friend.
      April 20, 2018 6:14 PM MDT
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  • 23577
    I'm even more sorry to hear that, bud. I could only imagine the toughness.
      April 20, 2018 6:20 PM MDT
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  • 44619
    Odd...my children were glad I divorced their mother. They got it. We parted friends. She switched sides.
      April 20, 2018 6:58 PM MDT
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  • 53509

      Wow, you were six years old, were you?  My father left within six minutes of planting the seed, never to grace my life again. (I'm not trying to one-up you, buddy.)



     

      My mother taught me to read almost a year before I started preschool.  As such, knowing how to read was a norm, or the norm. When I started kindergarten, I couldn't understand why there were kids who didn't know how to read, couldn't spell or write their own names, didn't know the alphabet, didn't know colors, didn't know the names of the days of the week, etc. When I started first grade, I couldn't understand why there were kids who struggled to read, or who didn't know certain words, had limited vocabularies. When I started AnswerBag and AnswerMug, I couldn't understand why there were adults who didn't know basic English grammar . . .  oh, wait, I went a little too far there, didn't I?



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    This post was edited by Randy D at April 21, 2018 4:21 PM MDT
      April 20, 2018 8:21 PM MDT
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  • 17596
    Again, I'm struck by your photograph.  That little fella shouldn't have a care in the world.  But he does.
      April 20, 2018 11:00 PM MDT
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  • 53509

      Thank you, mon amie, but I cannot take credit where I don't deserve it: none of the photographs I post here are of me (for reasons of privacy).  Instead, I find topic-appropriate images online to accompany my posts.  Shhhhhhh.

     ~




      April 21, 2018 5:25 AM MDT
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  • 17596
    I assumed that.  Videos are a dime a dozen and can easily be scanned or ignored.  But a photograph....it sits there speaking...not demanding anything.  Silent.    I love photography.  Did you notice the aliens in the background of this one?  Cool............
      April 21, 2018 6:42 AM MDT
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  • 44619
    Secret Service agents see everything.
      April 21, 2018 7:18 AM MDT
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  • 44619
    LOL That sounds like my first school years. My oldest sister taught me how to read and write and, as with you, I couldn't understand why others were so ignorant. I became an arrogant little s***.
      April 21, 2018 7:17 AM MDT
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  • 53509


      I didn't see other children as being ignorant. In my limited view of the world at such a young age, it was just something I wondered about in silence.
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      April 21, 2018 7:27 AM MDT
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  • 686
    At age 15 I was curios and imaginative at the time.  So I wanted to know if you can wear unused plastic garbage, trash, bin bag/liners as clothing.  So I tried it and have liked it ever since.
      April 20, 2018 8:28 PM MDT
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  • 3523
    You should take the Adverse Childhood Experiences Quiz.  Here's the link: https://www.ncjfcj.org/sites/default/files/Finding%20Your%20ACE%20Score.pdf.

    My score is between 6 and 8, depending on how strictly you define the word "often."

    My father left before I could walk.  My mother then tried to commit suicide and ended up in a mental institution.  I had multiple abusive step-parents, one who threatened to kill me.  Then my mother became and alcoholic etc etc.  Obla dee obla dah!
      April 20, 2018 9:24 PM MDT
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  • 44619
    I took the test. Rather simplistic, but for what it's worth, I had a score of 7.
      April 21, 2018 7:20 AM MDT
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  • 3523
    There, you see, it's all your parent's fault. (Ha ha).  I agree, the questions are pretty general but they (mostly public health researchers) do some very useful interpreting with the results.
      April 21, 2018 8:17 AM MDT
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  • 44619
    I didn't say it screwed me up. It just changed my life. I was too young to understand.
      April 21, 2018 9:36 AM MDT
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  • 3523
    Gotcha. That's why I put the laughter after saying that.
      April 21, 2018 10:12 AM MDT
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  • "Yes" ... I discovered that my Birth Certificate has an expiration date on it.  My life hasn't been the same since. :)
      April 21, 2018 1:18 AM MDT
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  • 16791
    1984. The year I grew up. Both parents hospitalised, leaving me responsible for two of my brothers (the four youngest siblings were farmed out to relatives). Later that year, my best friend was killed in a railway accident. I was fifteen.
      April 21, 2018 9:24 PM MDT
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