Would you ever date a person who has all of the personality traits that you look for, but looks a lot like your sister or brother?

Hmm..
I guess it affects me occasionally because my sister is only 6 years older.
She has a similar style and appearance as a lot of the women in my age group.
I just read a profile of a woman today who seemed awesome and when I looked at her picture it was like looking at my sister.
Same color hair and facial features.
This woman has so many good qualies and she is in a similar situation with a child to raise and she didn't seem materialistic at all.
I just know that if I dated her and we became a couple that everyone in my family would look twice and think that I have a thing for my sister.
LoL!
Not sure if I want to go down that road.


This post was edited by Summer at June 17, 2018 7:57 PM MDT

Ahh but do you fancy her.. are you attracted to her? If so then you are just one of many who are attracted to people with similar familial features.. so what's so awful about that?  I am wondering too... is it just that you think she looks like your sister or are we talking point blank can't mistake it kind of similar? 

I guess we really should go with our instincts on this one.. and not worry about what people think...  I am sure your family just want you to be happy :)

Like she really looks like my sister.
It's hard for me to overlook.

I'll be honest with you though.
I always tell people that my sister is beautiful.
She is.
I'm not attracted to my sister like that, but I'm not stupid either.
I know that she is what people typically see as attractive.

It just makes it difficult for me at times if I meet someone that looks like her.

I know it's weird.

I guess I don't think it's weird! There's a well known phenomenon where people are attracted to people with similar familial features. If she is attractive then that's what counts.. if she is nice that's what counts.. 

My sister is a white woman, blonde and thin.
Usually I go for women who look different.
I honestly don't really have a type, I like them all.
I really can't imagine that I will try to date that woman who reminds me so much of my sister though.
I think my sister would even think it was weird.
Hey maybe I can just tell her the issue and get her to completely change her look. LoL!

With.

  Oh. 
  In that case, I'm not allowed to participate. 

I think she'd notice no matter how or who she looked like.
It's just a guess, but, I DO have a feeling Mrs. Randy D is not only pretty but pretty darn observant as well.....

  Thank you.
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(The word "unique" cannot be quantified.  It means "only".)

I am aware that it cannot be quantified; however, I used it as if it could be qualified since using "somewhat unique" is a slightly apologetic way of posting an answer that does not directly answer a question.

Were we exchanging video feeds I would have skipped "somewhat" and used body language to avoid someone commenting, "So what does that have to do with the question?"

Admittedly, I seldom go to such trouble unless I am in the mood.