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Do you wish suffering and pain to the people that have wronged you?

Posted - June 18, 2018

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  • 34283
    No, I wish they would correct their issues and leave me and others alone.
    I don't hold grudges.
      June 18, 2018 10:14 AM MDT
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  • 7792
    How the h*ll are people suppose to get mad at you with answers like that? This post was edited by Zack at June 18, 2018 11:45 AM MDT
      June 18, 2018 10:21 AM MDT
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  • 17596
    No.  I might wish for them to evaporate though.
      June 18, 2018 10:20 AM MDT
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  • 7792
    Good enough for me.
      June 18, 2018 10:20 AM MDT
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  • 10026
    Big Giggles!  That was funny!  I had a mental picture of someone in front of you simply evaporating.  Kind of like on Star Trek when they went down to the planets!  :) :)
      June 18, 2018 11:31 AM MDT
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  • No. That's a s***ty way to go through life. This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at June 18, 2018 7:14 PM MDT
      June 18, 2018 10:35 AM MDT
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  • 7792
    So yet another person gone all zen on me.
      June 18, 2018 10:37 AM MDT
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  • 666
    To be honest I have thought about pain and suffering or at least a quick death or bankruptcy for some people who have really gone out if their way to hurt me.
    It's just my emotions and I think it's somewhat natural as long as a person doesn't act on it.
     I usually work through it though and I find a way to not let those people have so much power over me.
    Then I feel bad for getting so upset inside.



    This post was edited by Summer at June 18, 2018 1:58 PM MDT
      June 18, 2018 10:57 AM MDT
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  • 7280
    Be sure not to forgive too quickly---that can cause a delay in your healing from the harm that was done to you.


      June 18, 2018 4:39 PM MDT
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  • 10026
    No.  But, having magical powers does come in handy at times like this.  ;) ;)!
      June 18, 2018 11:32 AM MDT
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  • 44619
    No...But a Commanding officer of mine screwed me over by reducing my evaluation report, ensuring I would never make Master Chief. The Congressional investigation on him ensured he would never become an Admiral. Pay-back's a mofo.
      June 18, 2018 11:48 AM MDT
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  • 19937
    When I was younger I probably did.  After a while, you realize that doing nothing and putting it behind you is a much better way to live.  Then, magically, one day, you find that through nothing you actively did, karma gobsmacked them right in the face.  And when that happens, I think, YES!
      June 18, 2018 1:16 PM MDT
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  • 7792
    I hope so very much that's the case in my situation too.
      June 18, 2018 1:19 PM MDT
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  • 19937
    Be patient.  Sometimes it takes a while. :)
      June 18, 2018 1:51 PM MDT
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  • 3463
    Karma rocks!
      June 18, 2018 4:13 PM MDT
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  • 13395
    No I love them like the bible tells me to but I am a scorpio so I can't resist when there is opportunity to sting 'em in the butt somehow. 
      June 18, 2018 1:18 PM MDT
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  • 2658
    Due to my belief/s, I leave taking revenge out of myself...

    An eye for an eye will only make the whole world blind. – Mahatma Gandhi

      June 18, 2018 3:01 PM MDT
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  • 3463
    No, I don't have to. Karma usually takes care of that for me.
      June 18, 2018 4:12 PM MDT
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  • 11112
    No that would be silly and unproductive - if someone wrongs me big time I'll  bring them some pain and suffering. Awhile back a SOB took my dog for a one way ride so after I got my dog back I tracked the guy down and messed him up well letting him know it better not happen again. Cheers! This post was edited by Nanoose at June 18, 2018 6:45 PM MDT
      June 18, 2018 6:21 PM MDT
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  • 1326
    I leave that to God. I need to be forgiving of others so i myself can be forgiven.
      June 18, 2018 10:44 PM MDT
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  • 5614
    I wish justice and wrongs to be made right. This post was edited by O-uknow at June 19, 2018 10:05 PM MDT
      June 18, 2018 11:31 PM MDT
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  • 1713
    The most I do is wish for something really embarrassing to happen to them.
      June 19, 2018 5:53 PM MDT
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