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What is the most difficult thing you’ve been through in your life?

Posted - October 1, 2018

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  • 1502
    I watch for them now. I’m not as hard on myself as I once was. It’s always a sad tragedy when someone commits suicide.
      October 1, 2018 4:31 PM MDT
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  • 189
    It is Indeed.
      October 1, 2018 5:05 PM MDT
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  • 4624
    Very sorry to hear of that sadness.
    I imagine your friend never let on just how down he or she was.
      October 1, 2018 7:44 PM MDT
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  • 1502
    He sure didn’t. It was unexpected.
      October 1, 2018 7:50 PM MDT
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  • 4624
    Very tough.
    It's one of those things with depression. It carries a kind of shame enmeshed in it so that people feel too ashamed to talk about it - just when that's the thing they most need to do.
    It hurts too when one realizes that someone one was very close to still couldn't share at that deep personal level. Or at least it does for me.
      October 1, 2018 7:56 PM MDT
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  • 23570
    Damn. That's rough.


    This post was edited by WelbyQuentin at October 1, 2018 8:48 PM MDT
      October 1, 2018 8:19 PM MDT
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  • 4624
    There've been plenty of challenging moments and phases of different kinds, but the worst has been depression.
      October 1, 2018 6:34 PM MDT
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  • 44600
    A real a** kicker, eh.
      October 1, 2018 7:16 PM MDT
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  • 4624
    Yep - there is nothing worse than when the mind turns against itself.
    Guessing you know it too.

    melancholia
    the black dog
    the mire of despond
    the abyss
    the dark night of the soul...

    hell is a place alive on this earth

    Very glad I'm not there now.

      October 1, 2018 7:28 PM MDT
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  • 44600
    Those are good analogies, but I have a simple mind. I'm a man, you know.
      October 1, 2018 7:32 PM MDT
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  • 4624
    I'll have to take you at your word.
    Personally, I'm inclined to believe that anyone with a good brain, man or woman, is likely to be highly complex - and by that, I don't mean a euphemism for neurotic. Intelligence is such a vast complex of complex processes.
      October 1, 2018 7:36 PM MDT
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  • 1326
    Losing my husband after nearly 40 years of marriage.
      October 24, 2018 11:30 PM MDT
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