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If someone here disagrees with one of your comments, do you continue to debate it or just let it go?

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Posted - October 16, 2018

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  • 10634
    One can never win an internet argument.  Therefore, I let them go.
      October 16, 2018 12:00 PM MDT
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  • 7280
    Sure you can---1 + 1 = 2 is true, not simply an opinion.
      October 16, 2018 12:30 PM MDT
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  • 6023
    Unless you're talking figuratively, about marriage ... then 1 + 1 should = 1

    lol
      October 16, 2018 12:57 PM MDT
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  • 7280
    Well, the rule here is to 'respect" all opinions.  Unfortunately, the word "respect" has morphed into including "admiration" and "esteem."

    It used to be that because you "respected" (saw clearly the background for and the error of) someone's opinion was the precise reason that a person neither admired nor esteemed that opinion.

    That is why when I find a sufficiently egregious error in an answer or comment, I do correct it; but I never bother to read that person's reply to my correction.
      October 16, 2018 12:10 PM MDT
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  • 44602
    One debate I had the other member started talking about something that had nothing to do with the original question. I ended it.
      October 16, 2018 1:16 PM MDT
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  • 7280
    Coherent thought is not common to all men.
      October 18, 2018 2:49 PM MDT
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  • 7792
    Trolls don't ever want anyone to "let it go". Arguing a stupid point gives them fuel to put on the fire. It's fun to them. You take all that away by just making your point once and then letting it go. It's worked well for me even though I've only recently adopted this way of doing things. Let me make this clear. Disagree with me all you want, but I'm only going to give you one chance to do it. This post was edited by Zack at October 18, 2018 3:57 PM MDT
      October 16, 2018 12:18 PM MDT
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  • I hand them a lollipop and tell them to "suck it."
      October 16, 2018 12:47 PM MDT
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  • 44602
    Yeah...that would work.
      October 16, 2018 1:17 PM MDT
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  • 19937
    I'll discuss an issue until we get to the point where we are repeating ourselves.  Then I'm out.
      October 16, 2018 1:29 PM MDT
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  • 1502
    I’ll debate depending how long the other remains civil. If I notice the other person is stubborn and close minded I end it immediately. 
      October 16, 2018 1:52 PM MDT
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  • 22891
    i just let it go
      October 16, 2018 2:35 PM MDT
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  • I'd just let it go. Everybody's got the right to be wrong sometimes.
      October 16, 2018 5:20 PM MDT
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  • 10994
    I don't waste my time. If someone can't see that I am right, continuing to debate is unlikely to change their mind.
      October 16, 2018 6:23 PM MDT
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  • 5391
    Depends on the person and the nature of the disagreement. 
      October 16, 2018 6:34 PM MDT
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  • I have to copy off of Don Barzini's paper for this one. I agree with him - it depends on the person and the disagreement.
      October 17, 2018 4:14 PM MDT
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  • 5391
    Enough room in my spotlight for others
      October 17, 2018 4:16 PM MDT
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  • Haha thank you.
      October 17, 2018 5:54 PM MDT
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  • I may reply initially, especially if I feel misunderstood.  But will not engage in unpleasant differences of opinions by commenting further.  I get enough of that with family lol
      October 17, 2018 6:09 PM MDT
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  • 2658
    Speaking words of wisdom, let it be - Song Lyrics 

    That's my thought on the post...
      October 18, 2018 3:08 PM MDT
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  • 2219

    Let it go, otherwise it will just be a dialogue of the deaf. 

    They don't want to hear you, and just possibly you don't want to hear them either. 

     

    This post was edited by Malizz at October 19, 2018 7:23 AM MDT
      October 19, 2018 5:48 AM MDT
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  • 6098
    I don't know as I debate it but I will explain myself hoping they will better understand. 
      October 19, 2018 5:51 AM MDT
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