What was or has been your style? Are you surrounded by chaos and uncertainty but yearn for calm and tranquility? Or has your life been one of comfortable certainty while wishing for excitement, a brake from the routine?
Although I agree with you. And I hate drama and conflict and uncertainty. Sometimes, when I'm sitting outside with the dog, I imagine a helicopter landing on my front lawn with some guy wearing shades jumping out and screaming. GET IN THE CHOPPER IF YOU WANT TO LIVE! To which I would answer... Hold on let me feed the dog first!... You know what I mean?
I get high on stress and chaos. It tends to be my style. BUT! In my own defense, I am also calm and confident, especially in traumatic situations. I self-sabotage when I make my life chaotic. Underneath it all, I really do like organization and control. Does this answer your question? Big winks and smiles.
I like a balance of both. I don't always achieve that goal but it is nice when it happens. :) :)
This post was edited by Merlin at October 19, 2018 11:04 PM MDT