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Girls: Although you may not currently be in a relationship with him, can you ever forget the man you knowingly* gifted your virginity to?

* Assuming you were fully conscious and aware of what you were doing, nor were you in a rape situation. 

Posted - December 24, 2018

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  • 6988
    One of my former girlfriends claimed she lost her virginity to a tree branch while climbing a tree. 
      December 24, 2018 8:16 PM MST
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  • Did she claim you were her first? 
      December 24, 2018 8:18 PM MST
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  • 6988
    Hell no! 
      December 25, 2018 8:25 AM MST
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  • You sure it saw a tree branch only? 
      December 25, 2018 8:43 AM MST
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  • Hmmm...I honestly don’t feel like it was a ´gift’ I was giving to someone. It was nothing special and I feel like I more had sex with him to get over ´loosing my virginity‘ it all happened really fast and was nothing special,  to be honest. I don’t regret it .... but I don’t remember it foundly either. Anyway,  to answer your question no, I don’t forget it, but it is forgettable for me. Makes sense to me ;)
      December 24, 2018 9:01 PM MST
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  • I think it will remain unforgettable forever even if it was "nothing special". The first sexual experience, good or bad, stays in the memory for life.  This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at January 1, 2019 2:45 AM MST
      December 24, 2018 9:07 PM MST
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  • Possibly unforgettable :) but unremarkable still. I feel like there is a lot of pressure put on girls/ women.... that their first time should be something  »special«  mine was not, and I’m honestly okay with that. 
      December 24, 2018 9:14 PM MST
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  • You edited after I replied. I agree with what you said there in your edit :)
      December 24, 2018 9:17 PM MST
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  • OH yes.  He is good friends with a friend of mine.  I was only about 14 and I think we were pretty wasted. If I remember correctly, the first try he missed lol   It was the 70's...
      December 24, 2018 9:10 PM MST
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  • 22891
    guys wont ask nne out, let alone that happen
      December 25, 2018 9:01 AM MST
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  • 32527
    I can say I have not forgotten the first time with any of my former boyfriends or with my husband. As you said you remember the first time.
      December 25, 2018 2:11 PM MST
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  • 46117
    Of course I do.  

    Sex was and still is a huge deal to me.    I never understood promiscuity.  I think it is a head disease.


      December 25, 2018 4:15 PM MST
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  • 952
    First in everything of that nature is always unforgettable..

    (Not sure if I was eligible to give my comment here)
      December 26, 2018 10:21 AM MST
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  • 19942
    Good, bad or indifferent, you never forget your first.  
      December 26, 2018 1:56 PM MST
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