I had a rather long answer that I rather liked last night -- it was up for about ten minutes but I deleted it. The answer felt maybe too personal but it was true.
Funny -- I guess I had put that cart in front of the horse.
I had to google that, but, yes! Sometimes, I tend to do things backwards when I'm stressed out. And then there are times when I would welcome both the horse and cart to run me over. Knock some sense into me perhaps?