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Imagine a relative of yours or a close friend is about to become homeless and you've offered him/her to live at your residence.


  Would you impose absolutely NO conditions whatsoever on those living arrangements?

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Posted - May 26, 2019

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  • 10642
    Heck no!!!  I have relatives who are homeless (right in this very town).  If I ever offered him or any other family member to stay here (which I never will), I would have some rather semi-strict conditions. My house is neither a homeless shelter nor a motel. 
      May 26, 2019 1:26 PM MDT
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  • 53509

      What the heck does "rather semi-strict" mean?  It's both redundant and self-contradictory at the same time.
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      May 26, 2019 3:33 PM MDT
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  • 10642
    Semi strict as in - "if you don't follow my rules to the letter I'll run you over with a semi."

    (if you knew my relatives you'd understand) This post was edited by Shuhak at May 26, 2019 5:52 PM MDT
      May 26, 2019 4:18 PM MDT
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  • 7280
    Cute
      May 26, 2019 4:22 PM MDT
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  • 7280
    When writing, I would suppose redundancy and internal contradiction could be used to suggest the concept is nebulous at best in the writers mind or that the writer could not find a precise word to convey his meaning.
      May 26, 2019 4:25 PM MDT
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  • 53509


     writers writer's mind
      May 26, 2019 4:52 PM MDT
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  • 11005
    I think it would be foolish to have no conditions. 
      May 26, 2019 2:54 PM MDT
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  • 34284
    We have been in that situation more than once and yes we did require conditions...pretty easy ones. No drugs, no druggie friends, would need to work or at least be trying to get a job.  One moved in but out very quickly the job was going to take 60% of his check for child support and he could not have that so he moved to another town where he knew people who would pay cash.

    Another did not move in because of the no drugs and no druggies...also was offered same deal to live a child of theirs but could not take it either. 

    Very sad to watch but there is nothing you can do for people who will not help themselves. 
      May 26, 2019 3:13 PM MDT
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  • 14795
    Family and friends yes,but always common sense must prevail...    
      May 26, 2019 3:52 PM MDT
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  • 17598
    I would have to assess this on a case by case basis.
      May 26, 2019 11:50 PM MDT
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  • 53509

      Does that leave open the possibility that in some cases you might not set any conditions?
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      May 27, 2019 5:41 AM MDT
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  • My home is always open to my parents and my uncle's family, whom I love dearly, no conditions.
    To all others, my home is my castle. 
      May 27, 2019 6:23 AM MDT
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  • 53509

      Thank you. Does that mean to others the castle is open, or closed?
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      May 28, 2019 11:23 PM MDT
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  • Closed. 
      May 29, 2019 12:42 AM MDT
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