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Is this wrong ?

My friend has a crush on his step mom. Her and his dad got a divorce a couple years ago after being married 8 years. They had a son together who's 9. He wants to know if it's wrong to date her ? She's 26 he's 25. 

Posted - July 26, 2019

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  • 46117
    I stopped reading after the first three words.   You are that obvious.  
      July 26, 2019 2:18 PM MDT
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  • 4624
    It's not illegal, but it's incredibly stupid.

    The fact that the father and ex-step mom are divorced makes no difference - the emotional dynamics of the past relationship will affect the present one. It will most likely erupt into anger, recriminations, misery and yet another failed relationship.

    I wouldn't be surprised if it destroys his relationship with his father.


      July 26, 2019 2:30 PM MDT
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  • He should totally hit it.
      July 26, 2019 2:34 PM MDT
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  • 19937
    You need new friends.
      July 26, 2019 2:38 PM MDT
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  • 7280
    So she's 26 and was married for 8 years and divorced "a couple years ago."  So she was 16 when she married him, and the step son was 15?

    If all that's true, then as bookworm said, it would be stupid---and stupid with no limit.

     



      July 26, 2019 4:27 PM MDT
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  • 5451
    OK, I did the math and I think you're asking the wrong questions.  So, did your friend and his step-mom help each other with their homework when they were in high school?  How did that work?  What was it like sitting next to his step-mom in class?  I think that would be kind of weird.
      July 26, 2019 5:08 PM MDT
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  • 44614
    She and his  dad
      July 26, 2019 5:18 PM MDT
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