Discussion»Questions»Emotions» What’s the quickest amount of time you’ve ever ended a love relationship*, and were you the one who initiated the relationship? ~
What’s the quickest amount of time you’ve ever ended a love relationship*, and were you the one who initiated the relationship? ~
*Includes girlfriend/boyfriend, casual sex, marriage. Excludes direct family members or distant family members such as siblings, parents, grandparents, uncles, aunts, children, grandchildren, cousins, in-laws, etc.
The first time I read this question, I thought you were asking how long did it take grasping the concept the relationship wasn't working for whatever reason and say, "GET OUT!" or "I'm calling a Cab!" Had this been the question, my answer would have been, less than 5 seconds and that would have just about covered it.
After reading down, I see that wasn't what you were asking at all.
Instead, I think you would like to know how long we stayed in a sexual relationship after finding it failed to meet our expectations and called it quits. You put a stipulation on your question by saying we had to be the initiator the relationship.
A far cry from what I thought you were asking.
If I've grasped the concept of the question correctly, I don't qualify to answer. I've never had a guy cheat on me nor have I initiated a relationship. The meaningful ones were a mutual feeling to start dating. The unmeaningful ones were one-night stands and I was asked out by the guy.
Don't get me wrong. It was an understood one-night stand by both parties. I didn't have many scruples for a short time there.
This post was edited by Merlin at August 12, 2019 6:06 AM MDT
The Who initiated part was not a stipulation, I just wondered whether or not the answerer was the one who initiated. Also, not specifically “sexual” relationships, because two people can be in love with each other without having sexual contact, or a love relationship can begin without sex and that part might come later. ~
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Merlin 