Very funny ;) LOL!!! Did you really make such a conversation with your mum, Rachel? If so, you were very brave ;) ;) Hopefully your braveness didn´t backfire to you and let you feel a new outbreak of your allergies ;) ;)

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Absolutely ;)

Yeah, I am happy about that too and very proud of myself ;) ;) ;)

No. It happened only a few times that my dad didn´t find a place to sit down if he wanted to spank me, so when he had to do it while standing up, he pressed me against his left leg, pulled my pants down so far that my buttocks were bare and spanked me.

Well, all I can say is, that thankfully not all step-fathers are acting like that, Andy. Especially not stepfathers of today and honestly, I don´t know which motivation was forcing those who spanked their stepchildren, doing it. I assume that there were m...  moreWell, all I can say is, that thankfully not all step-fathers are acting like that, Andy. Especially not stepfathers of today and honestly, I don´t know which motivation was forcing those who spanked their stepchildren, doing it. I assume that there were many factors deciding for that behavior:
Firstly the fact, that a man wanted and because society expected of him, to follow the role nature gave him: to be the leader, in this case: the head of the household.

Secondly:  the (sad) fact, that the natural mother seemed to be happy/satisfied to be no longer alone responsible for her children and their education and because, society expected of her to not argue with her new husband, after all he had married her despite her child(ren). So she should be thankful that he did not care only about her, but also about the offsprings of a foreign man.

That´s no excuse for the doing of those "stepmonsters" (step mothers could be such cruel People, too but for other reasons) only an attempt at an explanation about what I thou...    less

I agree absolutely with your words hami, and I am wishing you and your unborn baby all the best. :)

Throwing tantrums was one of the most common reasons for me to went across my dads knees. As you know already, my dear sister,  I was a very stubborn child and in addiotion very hotheaded. So if I wasn´t allowed to do what I wanted to do it happened very ...  moreThrowing tantrums was one of the most common reasons for me to went across my dads knees. As you know already, my dear sister,  I was a very stubborn child and in addiotion very hotheaded. So if I wasn´t allowed to do what I wanted to do it happened very fast that I throw a very loud and strong tantrum and the normal result for such a behavior of me was, that my butt had to pay the price for it. I can´t remember that I throw a trantrum again after I was spanked for throwing the first tantrum. Maybe I should ask my dad if he can remember such an very unpleasant event.

I am sorry to hear, you got a second spanking for throwing a second tantrum, MaryJanine. Do you remember why that happened? I mean, why you couldn´t calm down and behaving well after the first spanking you got from your mother?  less

No I wasn´t spanked for hitting one of my friends or another child. But what could happen was, that I got spanked because I talked back as my dad asked me and my friend/the other child to stop hitting each other.

I am sorry to hear you were spanked for t...  moreNo I wasn´t spanked for hitting one of my friends or another child. But what could happen was, that I got spanked because I talked back as my dad asked me and my friend/the other child to stop hitting each other.

I am sorry to hear you were spanked for that, my dear sister. That doesn´t sound fair for me.  

That doesn´t surprise me, Andy ;) ;)

Thanks for your answer, Andy B. I already assumed you were spanked at home when you misbehaved somewhere outside, but I was still curious and wanted to know it for sure ;)

LOL!!! hahaa I would say, this keyboard fits very well to you, Andy ;) ;)

I don´t know if my parents ever told them to pull my pants down for a spanking. I really doubt that a conversation between my parents and my sitters went into those details ;) I rather think the reason why my sitters spanked my bare bottom, too was the si...  moreI don´t know if my parents ever told them to pull my pants down for a spanking. I really doubt that a conversation between my parents and my sitters went into those details ;) I rather think the reason why my sitters spanked my bare bottom, too was the simple reason, that they spanked their own children the same way, so why changing this habit for me? All above they knew exactly that my parents spanked me (almost) always with my pants down. My cousin, she was only 9 years older than I, had no child(ren) of her own then, but also she spanked my bare bottom. I think, she did it, because she was used to it by her own as she was still in the spankable age, so she just continued a family tradition ;)  less

Did those spankings happened in front of your aunts or in private when you and your parents were at home again, Andy?

Yes I was. All of my babysitters (aunts, my oldest cousin, my best friend´s mum and the best friends of my dad) had his permission to spank me if I misbehaved while they were in charge for me.

Mmm, very interesting thought, smiler. I remember, that it was a mix of very intensive emotions which I felt in those moments: Curiosity on the one hand, but also a very deep compassion for the concerned child. Sometimes this compassion went so deep, that...  moreMmm, very interesting thought, smiler. I remember, that it was a mix of very intensive emotions which I felt in those moments: Curiosity on the one hand, but also a very deep compassion for the concerned child. Sometimes this compassion went so deep, that I was crying silently with the pleading and sobbing child, even than when I didn´t know the boy or girl. And at the same time I felt very relieved that it wasn´t myself who got his butt spanked.  

You are welcome, sjf47 :) Thanks for this interesting question :)

That was very common. And the smack-sounds, the crying and pleading of the concerned child and the scolding voices of the spanking parent always caught my attention, no matter what I did at that moment and those sounds made me very curious in an innocent ...  moreThat was very common. And the smack-sounds, the crying and pleading of the concerned child and the scolding voices of the spanking parent always caught my attention, no matter what I did at that moment and those sounds made me very curious in an innocent way. If there was a chance, I tried to get closer to the window from where the spanking was to hear to catch a glimpse of the child who was so unfortunate to get a -mostly- bare bottom spanking.  

Sounds really good, MaryJanine, but to tell you a more detailed opinion I could need an example or a pic ;)

What was your reply at  your dad´s question, Andy? ;) ;) I am sure you said "no" and stopped arguing with your father ;) I remember my dad or aunts and uncles asked me something similar if they wanted to achieve a change of my behavior. Most of the time t...  moreWhat was your reply at  your dad´s question, Andy? ;) ;) I am sure you said "no" and stopped arguing with your father ;) I remember my dad or aunts and uncles asked me something similar if they wanted to achieve a change of my behavior. Most of the time their method worked and I behaved the way they wanted, but sometimes I couldn´t control my mouth and answered something like "No, I don´t want a spanking but I still want to do what I am doing!" Not the best choice of words in this moment ;)  

Hey, it´s interesting to see, you used a pic of a Comic with German words, BadSeed ;)

With your mother´s habit of spanking you and your sister, you both must have got a lot of so called "surprising spankings".

Did I ever told you before, that I love your protective nature, which shows so much true sisterly love for me, MaryJanine? XOXO

Well, welcome in the club of stubborn children ;) LOL!!! I love your last words: That you didn´t like sitting down after a ses...  moreDid I ever told you before, that I love your protective nature, which shows so much true sisterly love for me, MaryJanine? XOXO

Well, welcome in the club of stubborn children ;) LOL!!! I love your last words: That you didn´t like sitting down after a session with your mother´s paddle. That sounds so innocent and harmless, but I know for sure, that those spankings of your mother must have hurt very, very much. If I would have been there, I would have tried to hide this paddle your mother used so often and hard on your poor backside so effective, that your mother wouldn´t have been able to find and use it ever again on you.  less

There were always some warnings first, sisterheart. Those warnings were always combined with my two first names. If my mum or dad added my third first name to their words, then it wasn´t a warning anymore, but a "promise" that I would find myself only a f...  moreThere were always some warnings first, sisterheart. Those warnings were always combined with my two first names. If my mum or dad added my third first name to their words, then it wasn´t a warning anymore, but a "promise" that I would find myself only a few seconds later with my bare butt across their knees.  

My compassion goes out to you both, Cleancut and hami. I imagine it horrible to be woken up for a spanking without knowing why you were spanked at all. And to have to cry yourself back to sleep after such an unfair punishment must have been very bad, too....  moreMy compassion goes out to you both, Cleancut and hami. I imagine it horrible to be woken up for a spanking without knowing why you were spanked at all. And to have to cry yourself back to sleep after such an unfair punishment must have been very bad, too.


I never got a surprise spanking. All my spankings I got from my dad were announced in his usual manner by using my two first names in a (final)warning way or my three first names as the opening for a trip across his knees.  

No, my dad never spanked me for bad grades, but I could always count with a trip across his knees, if my teachers had a reason to complain about my behavior in school, which they did either in phone calls or letters.

I respected my dad, but not because he spanked me, but for the role model he was, for the love, understanding and support he gave me and that he was always there for me when I needed him. The spankings he gave me were a part of his education, nothing more...  moreI respected my dad, but not because he spanked me, but for the role model he was, for the love, understanding and support he gave me and that he was always there for me when I needed him. The spankings he gave me were a part of his education, nothing more and nothing less.Certainly I feared being spanked, but that didn´t mean I feared my dad. Fear is never a good basis for respect in my eyes. And fear isn´t necessary in the relationship between a child and his parents.  

 :)

Ouch, that sounds absolutely painful. I can´t imagine to get a whole spanking on my sitspots. Do you remember how many spanks your granddad applied on your sitspots then?  


 My dad did this a few times when I tried to protect my butt from his next spank...  moreOuch, that sounds absolutely painful. I can´t imagine to get a whole spanking on my sitspots. Do you remember how many spanks your granddad applied on your sitspots then?  


 My dad did this a few times when I tried to protect my butt from his next spanks. Then he warned me and if I didn´t move my hand away, he gave me two spanks on my sitspots and asked me again to move my hands. Even those two spanks on that sensitive part of my backside hurt like hell.


To answer your question, Ben: No, I never got preventive spankings from my dad. No matter what I did or how often I misbehaved, he spanked me always only for my current wrongdoing.

And if you don´t mind me to be honest, I think, it was cruel and absolutely not necessary for your granddad to inflict so much pain on you for misbehaving two times in school. I am sure, you didn´t do any major mishief there. The way I understand your earlier posts here is,  that it didn´t need much to get in trouble in the school you went to.  less

 :) Thanks sisterheart :)

Ouch!! I assume, you never said it again then ;)

Kudos to you Ben :) You seem to have been wiser than some other children, including me ;) ;)

Absolutely ;) ;)

Yes, I said this once and yes, my dad spanked me again. I sure never said something like that again.

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I am an only child, so I had no siblings to protect, but I once protected my best friend from a spanking he was going to get from his father. I said I did the mishief my friend actually did, so his father sent me home, told my dad what I had done and my d...  moreI am an only child, so I had no siblings to protect, but I once protected my best friend from a spanking he was going to get from his father. I said I did the mishief my friend actually did, so his father sent me home, told my dad what I had done and my dad spanked for that. Later I told my dad, what really happened and my dad and I had a long and very emotional talk about the whole event which ended, that my dad asked me to ever tell him the truth, especially if I would want to protect someone.  

She should have known her beloved daughter better, MaryJanine :)

haha LOL!! I would have loved seeing such a war of words and intelligence, too, MaryJanine ;)

Oh, that´s really bad, that your mother didn´t understand your need for privacy in that sensitive age. How did she react as you didn´t talk to her for a while? ...  morehaha LOL!! I would have loved seeing such a war of words and intelligence, too, MaryJanine ;)

Oh, that´s really bad, that your mother didn´t understand your need for privacy in that sensitive age. How did she react as you didn´t talk to her for a while? Did that made her angry or made her think about what she did?  

Yes, I was spanked for confessing the mishief I did, but my punishment would have been much worse if I had tried to talk my way out of it and my dad would have needed to do one of his interrogations to get the truth. I really hated being spanked for telli...  moreYes, I was spanked for confessing the mishief I did, but my punishment would have been much worse if I had tried to talk my way out of it and my dad would have needed to do one of his interrogations to get the truth. I really hated being spanked for telling the truth and I needed a certain time to understand, that telling the truth on time didn´t make my wrongdoing better, so of course I earned a spanking for that. The confusions peculiarities of parental discipline and justice are not easy to understand for a child ;)  less

Yes, now I have a very clear Image in my mind, Andy. Thanks for that ;) ;) ;)

What do you mean exactly with formal, Andy?

An old fashioned schoolmistress, LOL!!! that sounds funny and created already a pic in my mind ;)

Yes, lol I know that "acting as a cool and tough Boy" only too well. As my friend and I turned 11 years we always tried to act as if the spankings we got di...  moreAn old fashioned schoolmistress, LOL!!! that sounds funny and created already a pic in my mind ;)

Yes, lol I know that "acting as a cool and tough Boy" only too well. As my friend and I turned 11 years we always tried to act as if the spankings we got didn´t really bothered us LOL!!! even though we know exactly the others have heard us crying and begging during our punishment. ;)  

How discreet of your mother, Andy ;)

That happened to me a few times. My dad was a single father and if he was at the start or in the middle of spanking me and one of my friends rang at our door, he interrupted his punishment, lifted me off his lap, told...  moreHow discreet of your mother, Andy ;)

That happened to me a few times. My dad was a single father and if he was at the start or in the middle of spanking me and one of my friends rang at our door, he interrupted his punishment, lifted me off his lap, told me to stand where I was and answered the door. He told my friends that they would have to wait a few minutes outside, I would come out soon or, if we wanted to play inside the house, he told them he would let them in soon. Then he came back and finished my spanking. I didn´t mind that my friends could hear, that I got my bare bottom spanked. I was only concerned about how long my dad would still spank me and how much my butt would be on fire afterwards and it happened at least as often, that I witnessed by chance a spanking of my friends as I wanted to visit them as they overheard mine.  less

This is the our conversation which I mean, sisterheart. Somehow I think, your last reply don´t fit to what we were talking about:

YOU:
Mein adored kleiner Bruder - I am so sorry that MIchael made you hurt so badly. I wish I had been there to make you fee...  moreThis is the our conversation which I mean, sisterheart. Somehow I think, your last reply don´t fit to what we were talking about:

YOU:
Mein adored kleiner Bruder - I am so sorry that MIchael made you hurt so badly. I wish I had been there to make you feel better. I'll tell you something you probably don't know - I am the second of four children, but when the younger two (both Bruders) got spanked, I cried with them - I felt so bad for them.
MaryJanine.
ME:
Thanks for your compassion, sisterheart.I think, hiding is a natural instict of a child who knows, that a spanking awaits him but I also know very well, that I should obey my dad as soon as he called me to come to him. So I would say, it was in a certain way my own fault, that I got a few hard spanks more on my butt ;)
I didn´t know this but it doesn´t surprise me that you had so much compassion for your brothers that you felt bad if they were spanked. I felt the same for my best friend or my favorite cousins. It´s a natural sign of love I think. XOXOX
YOU:
I...    less