This is a companion question to: Those of you over 25 years old, have you ever been out in public with your parent and someone assumed that the two of you were a couple? ~http... moreThis is a companion question to: Those of you over 25 years old, have you ever been out in public with your parent and someone assumed that the two of you were a couple? ~https://answermug.com/forums/topic/42628/those-of-you-over-25-years-old-have-you-ever-been-out-in-public/view/post_id/381758~
I loved an older, married man dearly for nine years as a very close friend and confidante , and he loved me too almost like his daughter. It was all purely platonic.Then one n... moreI loved an older, married man dearly for nine years as a very close friend and confidante , and he loved me too almost like his daughter. It was all purely platonic.Then one night last September the unexpected, and perhaps inevitable, happened and we both succumbed to the situation. Ever since then he has almost cut me off saying I seduced him into compromising his strict moral code of fidelity to his wife. I think his treatment of me is most unfair. We were both parties to what happened and we both went in with our eyes fully open. He cannot attribute his moment of weakness to my wiliness, as he terms it.Of course, we'll both make sure it won't happen again. How do I win back his trust and friendship? He is such a lovely person. less