I don't ever expect gifts or even a thank you at work - it's my job to help people and I like to do my job to my best ability.. but a student gave me a prezzie of a bottle of wine,... moreI don't ever expect gifts or even a thank you at work - it's my job to help people and I like to do my job to my best ability.. but a student gave me a prezzie of a bottle of wine, (working my way through it as we speak :P) and it kinda got me thinking.. cos, as I said to her truthfully, I never did anything to deserve it.. I even, on occasion forgot to remind her of stuff... mainly cos I knew she was reliable and on the ball... There are others though who I have bent over backwards and suffered to help.. yet they don't seem in the least bit grateful.. Not that I expect them to - just seeing them achieve what they need to is reward enough.. but don't you think it's odd that it isn't those people who are the most grateful? less
Turnabout is fair play. The Narcissist blames everyone for everything that goes wrong. Nothing is ever his fault. He has always been that way. Always. Now it's our turn to scapegoa... moreTurnabout is fair play. The Narcissist blames everyone for everything that goes wrong. Nothing is ever his fault. He has always been that way. Always. Now it's our turn to scapegoat him for all our disappointments. Blame him for bad jobs, bad health, bad marriages, bad life, bad attitude, bad vibes, bad environment, bad everything. No matter how far removed it is and absurdly ridiculous blame him for it. That's what he does all the time and he became prez. What more proof do you need than that? It works. It worked for him. It can work for you too! :( less
Normally people aspire to be the "best" they can be. Striving to be the worst seems evil/insane to me. Does it seem evil/insane to thee? Who else would be thrilled with achieving t... moreNormally people aspire to be the "best" they can be. Striving to be the worst seems evil/insane to me. Does it seem evil/insane to thee? Who else would be thrilled with achieving the worst possible but an evil madman and his acolytes?
