likely to be especially gifted in certain "romantic" (cough, cough) activities?
**Inspired by Element's "suck" question.**
I went through the same thing as a youngster; being bullied and/made fun of by other kids because of the appearance of my full lips. It started from the time I first began school at age four or five, and it continued at least up to junior high school. What made it worse was that 95% of the tormentors were always other Black kids just like me.
Fate and/or karma did make up for it, however: right about the time I began to notice girls and they began to notice me, my full lips were one of my features that caught their attention, and once I began to engage in romantic or sensual or sexual kissing, my lips have proven to be a true asset. Lastly, when it comes to their lips, I’ve always been more attracted to women whose lips are naturally fuller than others, thin lips barely catch my eye. That doesn’t mean I’d turn her away, it’s just not my top preference. The act of kissing is of course enhanced when both partners are better endowed in that area.
All of that being stated, it’s only a woman’s natural lips that I like, be they full or thin. Botox or any other cosmetic increases in size are an immediate and automatic turn-off to me.
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Nope, I think it’s more along the lines of assuming that “bigger” equals “better”, as in eyes, eyelashes, breasts, nipples, genitals, and butts. I can certainly see how some people might intuitively make the connection between the act and the trend, with the former inspiring the latter.
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Wait, I thought you were all sweet and innocent!
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You tell her, Ansley. You’re the one who brought it up.
Black people blush, you know, it just doesn’t show as much.
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Nanoose 