*Before anyone protests that that concept is impossible, look at it as something you may have been reluctant to do, yet in retrospect, you later realized that it was positive for you in some way(s).
Example: I have a relative who was the victim of a crime and out of fear did not want to take any steps toward having the perpetrator held accountable. After being forced to go through the process of identifying the perp, filing charges, giving evidence and testifying in court, the outcome was a conviction and a prison sentence. Years later, none of the feared negative consequences ever materialized, and the entire situation eventually ended up resolved.
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