My friend is normally fun, outgoing, but can be bossy /pushy too. Last year she did have a wonderful holiday gathering at her home, and b/c I don't have much family I accepted her invite and had a nice time. She asked me this year on a phone message if I'd like to come this year. I had food poisoning the weekend she called, and decided to FB message her as I could barely move/talk .. rather than phone. She is BIG into phone, and although she doesn't 'always' push the phone, she sometimes has.. the thing is, she talks a LOT and doesn't come up for air for much of what I might have to say. She's fun and nice in many ways, but its one reason I don't often phone people... I have also felt ill last year and couldn't call her, and relayed that too, and I think she thinks this year I'm just saying it... though I don't know. But if someone messaged me ANY way, I'd be happy about it.... my question is, b/c she has not replied in over a week, (I explained I was ill and had food poisoning) and has not given me any well wishes, would u bring that up to her? I planned on calling her this week but now I don't know.. I feel low she did not even say hope you feel better, when I've been there for her anytime she felt low. she did wish me well when I had surgery once, but she has really just kind of dismissed my message last week and whenever she's felt ill or sad, I've expressed concern.. I don't know to let it go, b/c we have been good friends, or say anything ?
SA (SuperA) 