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Honey Dew

If the Lord decides to take me home next week during surgery I want someone to know;

I love you very much and miss you every day.  Sorry things didn't work out for us. You are always on my mind.  I wonder how you are doing and hope you are taking care of yourself and are happy. 

Posted - April 22, 2023
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  • 844
    Honey Dew, my thoughts will be with you this week. I hope you'll check in as soon as you get home. I had some major surgery last week (the 19th). I was so nervous, but here I am today. May God bless you and send you home safely!
      April 23, 2023 4:38 PM MDT
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  • 2999
    Thank you so much I will if I'm able to type, my hands are affected and I'm not sure what post op will be like.  Hope you are feeling ok after you're surgery.
      April 24, 2023 9:05 AM MDT
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  • 844
    Yes, I'm doing OK. Thank you!
      April 24, 2023 12:57 PM MDT
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  • 34270
    I will say a prayer for you safety and health and that your surgery goes wonderfully. 
      April 24, 2023 7:48 AM MDT
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  • 2999
    Thank you for your prayers and good wishes, at my age you just never know.  This post was edited by Honey Dew at May 29, 2023 10:50 PM MDT
      April 24, 2023 9:05 AM MDT
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  • 13277
    That’s quite the romanticized idea of how death works. But having said that, our thoughts are with you.
      April 24, 2023 10:28 AM MDT
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  • 2999
    Why do you say romanticized?  The surgery was great, little post op pain.  The only issue was the steroids they gave me..omg they made me crazy, never will I take those again.  Overall I have to say it was the best surgery I've ever had, except for the steriods, I feel great.
      April 25, 2023 3:48 PM MDT
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  • 5451
    I’m glad it went well.
      April 26, 2023 9:38 AM MDT
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  • 13277
    The whole idea of ”the Lord” taking you home as opposed to nature taking its course. Strikes me as a religious invention to make death seem less cold and scary.
      April 25, 2023 5:22 PM MDT
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  • 2999
    On the contrary, death to me is not cold nor scary.  Death awaits us all, I know where I'm going and look forward to trading this aging and broken down body for a new one.  I have watched many videos  on Utube of those who have died for a little bit then were brought back.  Their experiences are compelling.  
      April 25, 2023 7:13 PM MDT
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  • 13277
    But you haven't accepted the reality that our bodies are cremated or buried and decay to nothing, and we don't get replacements.
      April 25, 2023 8:37 PM MDT
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  • 34270
    How exactly do you know that....you don't. 
      April 26, 2023 4:09 AM MDT
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  • 13277
    It’s just common sense, and nobody has returned to tell us otherwise.
      April 26, 2023 9:19 AM MDT
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  • 34270
    Many people have been declared dead and had near death experiences, who have indeed  "came back" to tell us about it. 
      April 26, 2023 5:21 PM MDT
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  • 2999
    We get a new type of body that will last for eternity, in the spiritual realm.
      April 26, 2023 1:39 PM MDT
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  • 13277
    Sounds like a crock to me, but you are entitled to your belief.
      April 26, 2023 4:15 PM MDT
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  • 5451

    Nobody’s arguing that our bodies don’t get cremated or buried and decay to nothing when we die.  The argument is over if humans have a self-aware spiritual component that continues to exist in some form after death.  

    People’s experiences with NDEs seem to point to a self-aware spiritual component unless there’s another adequate explanation for those experiences.

    I wonder, what exactly does a person who doesn’t believe that humans have a spiritual component get out of convincing someone who does believe that humans have souls or spirits that they really don’t have souls or spirits?

    If they’re dead and there’s no self-aware spirit form that continues, they’re not going to be thinking “Gosh darn it, Stu was right.  I should’ve listened to him.  What an idiot I was for believing that people had souls.”


    This post was edited by Livvie at April 26, 2023 10:19 PM MDT
      April 26, 2023 4:38 PM MDT
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  • 844
    Hang in there Honey Dew. Some people will never believe. I'm one of those people that has had a "near death experience". At the time, I was not very plugged into religion. It was a very hopeful experience. This post was edited by NYAD at May 29, 2023 5:02 PM MDT
      April 25, 2023 9:10 PM MDT
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  • 2999
    Glad you made it and gained new insight.
      April 26, 2023 1:42 PM MDT
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  • 11106
    There is a really pretty song called Life In The Bloodstream by the Guess Who. It is about how when we die our energy moves on to a new person. Hope the surgery goes well. Cheers!
      April 25, 2023 9:39 PM MDT
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  • 2999
    That is a new thought for me.  I'll have to explore that idea further, Thanks.
      April 26, 2023 2:05 PM MDT
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