For example, a friend (from a different culture) asked if I would like to see a picture of her mother. The photo was taken after her mother's death.
That Australian guy on here once tricked me by saying if I ever wanted to establish a chapter of The Harem in Sydney, he knew a dirty, naughty, eager woman who could lead it, and offered to show me her picture . . . :
I was not ready! (Danged Aussie.) Grrrrrrrrrr.
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