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If someone really loves a person they should be able to say it upon request.

Posted - August 29, 2023


  • 5453
    I think it all depends on the couple’s love languages.  If one’s love language is affirmation, then yes, the other one needs to say “I love you”.
      August 29, 2023 3:19 PM MDT

  • 10001
    Some people have trouble expressing their emotions.  It doesn't mean they don't have them.
      August 29, 2023 3:45 PM MDT

  • 2844
    I would wonder why I would have to ask that person to say the words.
      August 29, 2023 4:12 PM MDT

  • 10484
    I believe that law states that such a request must be submitted (in writing) at least 24 hours prior to any reply.
      August 29, 2023 8:37 PM MDT

  • 7408
    Silly you!
      August 30, 2023 7:23 AM MDT

  • 13261
    If it needs to be requested, it’s not real love.
      August 29, 2023 9:29 PM MDT

  • 7408
    Sometimes you just need to hear it!  A few years back my BFF made the same request, I immediately told him I loved him, no delay. :  I
      August 30, 2023 7:21 AM MDT

  • 17442
    Do you have a question? 
      August 30, 2023 8:26 AM MDT

  • 7408
    This is under "statements."
      August 31, 2023 4:10 AM MDT

  • 17442
    Sorry!  I never look at categories.   As to the subject,  not really.  If I have to ask I'm not secure in the relationship.  I have never needed to say nor hear "I love you" at the end of every phone call.   Acknowledge that I do not consider asking someone if they love you the same as asking someone to say it.  I think it would be unusual to not feel loved if your spouse really loves you....that language of love is unmistakable unless you have hooked up with a con artist.   
      September 1, 2023 2:06 PM MDT