Dealing with bureaucratic paperwork, redtape, and BS. 98% of the time it's highly convoluted and inefficient and most often serves little purpose other than to cost money and make money switch hands. It makes me want to choke people with piano wire.
1. Fixing things A. Have a crucial conversation with it B. Get really cross with it, maybe try and put a guilt trip on it C. Hit it with a hammer 2. Patience A. Just get the eff out of my way please before I hit you with a hammer 3. Arguing A. See #2, then #1-C 4. Relationships A. See #3
Seriously, I very rarely hit people with hammers, I normally restrict myself to a shoe, and misplace the aggression to an inanimate object, like a table. I'm always very polite when I do these things.
Shall I tell you what I am really good at first? I am great at solving problems. I am not good at being a plumber, carpenter, roof repairman, ditch digger, mover, house painter, landscape caretake, or house builder. Those are problems I had, but I could hire every kind of worker there was to do everything, including remodeling.
I can't tell you how many projects I led and completed, using my problem solving skills. That saved me from suffering, like other people I know.